Debbie by eltoro The toughest kid in the neighborhood Back when I was in high school, the toughest kid in our neighborhood was a girl. Her name was Debbie, and nobody, boy or girl, gave Debbie any problems. She was big and tough, and would fight at the drop of a hat. She was about 5'8" tall and weighed about 200 pounds, and she could fight. We all lived in a rural area and road a bus to school. We lived about a half an hour drive from the school we attended, and the ride was always boring, and the noise level was always high, and Debbie always had plenty of time to pick on people. Debbie always picked on people, and enjoyed that very much. She always sat in the third or fourth seat, and would pick on the people that walked by her to go to the back of the bus, and the people that were unfortunate to sit in front of her. This encounter I had with Debbie was the first of what has been many matches against women. While I really hated Debbie at the time, I would like to thank her now as I have had many matches against women, really enjoy it, and do very well against the ladies. The only thing I enjoy more than competing against a strong and skilled woman, is beating them. Thanks Debbie, for getting me started. The school year was drawing to a close, and the weather here is always hot and humid. The bus had all of the windows open for the ride, but still felt like a sauna. The high school I went to had a separate campus for the freshman and sophomores, and the juniors and seniors. The under classmen were dropped off at their campus first in the morning, and picked up last in the afternoon. I was 15 and a sophomore, Debbie was 18 and a senior, and this is where the story begins. The bus pulled up to the circle drive to let us off at the campus, and I was not paying any attention to Debbie as I walked by. School was going to be finished in a week, and I was thinking about starting the summer. The slap to the back of my head made me stop thinking about summer, and start thinking about slapping back. It was a hot morning, and that slap pissed me off. I turned to look behind me, and the guy standing there was about 10 feet behind me, holding his hands in the air and shaking his head side to side. I looked down to my left, and there sat Debbie, smirking. I reached back and slapped her on top of the head. She called me a bastard and started to stand up to retaliate when the bus driver came over and forced his way between us. He told Debbie to sit down, and me to get off. I did so gladly. School was a drag, and back in the "old" days when I went to school, we were not left out early just because the temperature got hot. We had to stay all day and suffer through. The only good part about this day was knowing that I would get to talk to Glenda. Glenda was a junior and came back to this campus in the afternoon to take her first semester of Spanish. She was very good looking and a big flirt, and all of the boys wanted to get into Glenda's pants. Glenda was also Debbie's best, and probably only friend. The third hour finally arrived, and I was walking through the hall making sure to get my daily dose of Glenda. I finally saw her, and she was looking fine. She waved me over to her, and we started to talk. She told me that Debbie was really pissed off, and wanted to fight me after school that night. Debbie lived about 4 miles from where I did, and I told Glenda I would fight her, but did not know how we could given the distance. Glenda told me that Debbie would sit in the back of the bus that night, and save me a seat across from her. If I wanted to fight, go to the back of the bus and Debbie and I would fight. I told her I would. The anticipation was driving me wild. On one hand I was afraid of her, and on the other hand I was tired of taking her crap, and wanted to kick her ass. The rest of the day flew by, and it seemed like only minutes before I was talking to Glenda, and here I was now getting on the bus to go home. I walked the two steps up into the bus, and turned to face the rear and there sat Debbie in the very last seat on the left. We instantly made eye contact, and both knew the fight was on. Sitting down in the seat across from her, she started talking about how she would beat my ass. So I called her a fat ass, and told her let's go. She said we would wait until the bus got out of town and made the turn to go to the country. Her reasoning was that the bus driver would have a harder time stopping the bus to break up the fight. I agreed. We both sat there quiet, and the tension was building. Some of the other people on the bus knew what was going on, and were looking forward to the fight. Lots of people watch fights, few will fight. Debbie and I were going to give them an opportunity to watch a fight. My mouth was getting dry, my hands began to shake a little as the bus started to roll. Even today I get keyed up waiting to begin a match against a woman. Can't help myself. The bus was approaching the turn, and everybody was pretty quiet. Most of us knew fight time was right around the corner, literally. As the bus was coming out of the turn, Debbie and I turned in our seats and faced each other. We both kept sitting there staring at each other, neither of us even blinking. Suddenly somebody shouted fight, and her and I started slapping each other. Some of the people stood up to get a better view, and Debbie and I were not disappointing them. We were hitting each other hard and often. Neither of us tried to block, we were both too busy flailing away. We were slapping each other in the face and head, with no real damage being done. The bus driver was hollering at us to stop, but neither of us wanted to. Simultaneously we both rose to our feet, and the open hands went closed, and the fists started to fly. We were hurting each other now, and both grew more angry with every punch. The bus driver finally slammed on the brakes, and the bus slowing threw both of us off balance. I fell toward the front of the bus, and Debbie caught herself on a seat, and fell back onto some guy sitting there. The bus driver finally got us separated, and made Debbie sit in the back, and made me sit in the front. When he pulled up to my house, he told me as I was getting off that I was kicked off the bus for the rest of the year, which was only a week. When my mom found this out, she went ballistic. My dad worked afternoons, and did not get home until midnight. My mom worked mornings, and did not get home until 5:30 in the afternoon. For that next week, my dad took me to school, and griped at me all the way there for being so stupid. I had to wait for my mom to pick me up, so I had to sit outside the school until about 6:00 every night and wait for her. Then, she griped all the way home about my being so stupid. I really hated Debbie now. It was now mid June and school finally finished for the year. Things were looking up. I would be off for the summer, and my birthday is in August, so the world was looking very bright. One afternoon the phone rang, and when I answered it, I could not believe my ears. It was Debbie, and she wanted to fight again. We agreed to fight at a little school house about a half mile from where I lived. I would have to walk down there, and Debbie had a yellow Volkswagen so she would drive. Be there at 4:00 tonight she told me. I agreed, and we hung up the phones. Walking down there I got nervous again. I felt like I could jump out of my skin. I could feel beads of sweat gathering on my forehead, and my hands were tingling. I almost ran the half mile to that school, and got there before Debbie. The wait was making me crazy. Finally I heard a car pull into the gravel parking lot, and could tell by the sound of the engine it was Debbie. I think it takes a lot of guts to agree to a fight like this. Nobody is there to break up the fight. Just the two of us, and we wanted to fight. I was wearing a pair of cutoff blue jeans, a tee shirt, and a pair of canvas Converse All-Stars. Debbie was wearing a pair of shorts, a sweatshirt, and a pair of white tennis shoes. She also had a couple of rings on her right hand. She was taking this seriously. She had parked about 20 feet from where I was standing. She stared at me as she got out of her car, and our eyes locked as she approached. Neither of us said a word. When she got about six feet from me, I brought my fists up in front of me, and she did the same. We circled as we approached each other, and went about a half circle when we started fighting. I am left handed, Debbie was right handed. I punched her in the mouth with my right hand, and hit her with a solid shot. She swung back with a wide right hand, swinging past my head. I hit her in the face with my left hand, and she backed up a bit. She again swung with her right hand, and this time caught me in the left jaw right in front of my ear. I swung back with my left hand, and my fore arm hit her in the ear. I wrapped my arm around her head, and started punching her with my right hand. She was getting hit with some hard punches, and she grunted with every blow. She tried to hit me in the groin a couple of times, but missed and hit my hip. She did catch me in the stomach a few times, but without much force. As I said earlier, Debbie was about 5'8" tall, and weighed 200 pounds. I was, and still am, 6' tall, and back then weighed about 180 pounds. I kept my headlock on Debbie, and kept punching her in the face with my right hand. I was hurting her, and her punches started coming more slowly and with less force. Finally I was able to throw her to the ground, and able to maintain the headlock. Now I was forcing her head against the ground, and still kept punching her in the face. She was not hitting me back now, she was just laying there getting beaten up. I forced her onto her back, and sat on her chest. I told her to give up, and she refused, so I slapped her across the face. I did this a couple of more times, and she finally gave up. I had beaten big bad Debbie up. My hands were sore and I had a fat lip, but I won the fight. She was still laying there as I walked away, and I was proud of myself for beating her up. She was a bully, and deserved to be beaten up. As I walked home, I figured this would be the last I would hear from Debbie. I was wrong about this in a big way. It was now the end of August, and I was with the family celebrating my 16th birthday. I was outside playing baseball with some relatives, when my mom told me to come into the house for a phone call. I rarely ever got calls when I was young, and could not imagine who this could be. Upon answering, I was very surprised to hear Debbie on the phone. She told me she wanted to fight again. She told me to meet her at "Rome" the next night at 6:00. I told her I would be there, and she told me I better be, and hung up. "Rome" was at the far east side of the school yard where Debbie and I had first fought. Some years before, somebody had excavated an area about 20 feet wide and about 60 feet long. The dirt from the hole was left there, and through the years the rain had washed some of the dirt back into the hole. The mound of dirt was about 2' high, and the hole was about 3' deep. This area looked like a coliseum, so everybody called it Rome. Kids played football there, had fistfights there, and screwed there. A lot of things went on in Rome, because you could not see anybody in there from the school or the road. You had to walk all the way across the school yard, which was about 400 feet. I was looking forward to fighting Debbie again, and planned on giving her a good ass kicking this time. That next day my parents went to visit some friends, so I would not have to tell them a story to leave the house. I was home alone, and ready to kick some ass. I had on the same shirt, cutoffs, and tennis shoes that I had worn for the first fight. I was hoping for the same result, and looking forward to the fight. When I got there, I saw an old pick-up truck in the school parking lot. I did not recognize the truck, so I looked across the school yard, and was disappointed to see somebody sitting there on the side of Rome. This was not good, as somebody being there might keep Debbie and I from fighting, and I wanted to fight her again. I walked across the school yard, and as I got closer I could see it was a woman sitting there. She was a big woman, 6' tall and weighing about 200 pounds, and she was wearing a tee shirt and cutoffs. As I got closer, she stood up and asked me if I was looking for Debbie. I said I was, and her reply was that she was there to teach me a lesson. She said her name was Ronnie, and she was a friend of Debbie's. She heard about Debbie and I fighting, and heard I had beaten Debbie up, and wanted to fight me herself. She told me I was bigger than Debbie, and should pick on somebody more my size. I found out later that Ronnie was from a neighboring town, and had been arrested for beating up her husband at least twice. She worked as a janitor at a high school, and was also a bouncer at a local tavern. She was very tough, and very willing. I was not going to back down from her, and told her let's fight. There were plans to build a subdivision behind the school, and those plans included building a fence around the school yard. There were several fence posts in Rome, so Ronnie and I agreed to clean out the posts and fight in there rather than fight in the school yard. Ronnie was barefooted, and insisted I also fight barefooted. Before removing the posts, I took off my shoes, and to this day when participating in mixed matches I compete barefooted. I get a better sense of balance, and most women have pretty feet, so what the hell. Ronnie and I worked together to remove the posts from Rome. As we threw the last post over the edge, she told me she could out fight most men, and out fuck most women. Even now I have no idea why she said that, and my reply was so what? We both walked back to the center of the pit, and were about 4 feet from each other when we raised our hands to start fighting. We did not circle like Debbie and I did, but we stood flat footed across from each other. I faked a couple of times, trying to get Ronnie to make a move, but she would not budge. Our eyes were locked, and I forced the fight by taking a step toward Ronnie. This was the opening she was looking for, and she lowered her shoulder and tackled me. I fell on my back, and her body slip up mine until her butt was against my stomach. She sat on me, and punched me in the face. I was able to get my feet under me, and threw her off of me, up over my head. We both scrambled to get back to our feet, and the circling began. Ronnie was taller than Debbie and a lot stronger. She was a better fighter also. It was easy to tell she really enjoyed fighting. She was almost smiling as we circled. This time I charged in, and Ronnie hit me as I closed in. The punch straightened me up, and she followed with another punch to my face. I swung and missed, and she hit me two more times in the face. I could feel a trickle of blood running down my lip, and this pissed me off. I backed away from Ronnie, trying to find an opening. She stepped up to me and punched me in the face again. Like Debbie, Ronnie was also right handed, and she kept hitting me with a right. Another right hand by Ronnie to my head, and I finally hit her with a right of my own. She didn't even notice, and she followed my punch with another right to my face. I bent over at the waist, and she hit me several times in the back oh the head, neck and shoulders with punches. I finally lunged forward and was able to take her to the ground. We struggled for control, rolling back and forth on the grass. We punched each other at every opportunity, and while I was finally hitting her, I was getting tired. I had taken quite a few punches to the head, and had a bloody nose, and could feel my left eye throb with every beat of my heart. I finally got control over Ronnie, and tried to keep my body pressed against hers and get some rest. I had my arms wrapped around her neck, and was pulling her face into my shoulder. I had my shoulder under her nose, and this was hurting her. She grabbed my hair with her left hand, not to pull it, but to control my head movement. She was now hitting me in the side of the head with her right hand. Hard punches that were wearing me out, hurting me with every punch. I pulled my arms from behind her neck and sat up to hit her. She held me by the hair, and pulled my head at an angle, and punched me with her right hand in the face. I hit her in the chest a few times, and finally hit her in the mouth with a solid punch. She grunted and cussed, and kept hitting me in the face with her right hand, and started kneeing me in the back. After a time, she pulled me back down to her and rolled on top of me. She sat up on me, and keeping a hold of my hair, punched me twice more in the face. The punches then turned to slaps, and after each slap she asked if I wanted to quit. I tried three or four times to throw her off from me, and each effort was rewarded with another slap to the face. I finally shouted my submission, and she slapped me several more times before getting off of me. When she stood up, she stepped on my mouth with her foot, and pressed against my mouth and ground her foot into my lips. She then wiped both of her feet on my face, and walked away. I did not get up for an hour or so, I was really hurt. My head, face, hair, ribs, legs, and back were all sore. Walking home was a killer. That half mile back to the house felt like it was 50 miles. I forgot to pick my shoes when I left, and the rocks were hurting my feet. I staggered that half mile, and went to bed before my parents got home. The next day I got up and looked in the mirror, and I was a total mess. I had dried blood on my lips, a black eye, two bumps on my forehead, a split below my ear, and several cuts and scratches. My parents were livid, and asked me what had happened. Being too embarrassed to tell them the truth, I told them some kids walked through the school yard as I was playing basketball, and we started playing a game, and I got into a fight with one of them. One of the other kids jumped in, and the two of them beat me up. The next week school started again, and in the school year book, my junior picture has me with that black eye. Very embarrassing. I don't know how you guys are after you lose, but I always want a rematch if I lose, and always give a rematch if I win. If you beat me once, you might have been lucky. If you beat me twice, you are just better. I went about the business of planning another fight with Ronnie. That is how I found out her name, and some of her history. I talked to Glenda, and Debbie told her all about the fight, and told her about how she had called Ronnie. She further explained that she then called me to fight, and Ronnie was there instead of her, and kicked my ass good. That is when I found out where Ronnie lived, where she worked, and how she had beat up her husband. The school year was in full swing, and all of the fall activities were going on. I called Ronnie up, and told her I would be in her town on that Friday night to watch the high school football game, and told her I wanted to meet her there. She said she would. The football game was the excuse I used with my parents to get out of the house. I had gotten my license and could drive by myself, and wanted to get even with Ronnie. I got to the game and parked the car, and had no idea where I would find her. I walked around for a few minutes but did not see her. I decided to go to the concession stand to see if she might be working there, but she was not. Since I was there, I got in the line to buy a drink, and would continue the search with a Coke. While standing in line, I heard somebody walk up behind me, but paid no attention. Soon I felt them lean against me, so I moved a step forward. They stepped up into me again, so I turned to ask what was going on, and there stood Ronnie. She asked if I was looking for her, and started to grin. We talked a minute about fighting again, and she told me we could go back to her house and fight. I followed her back to the house, and we walked in and her husband was sitting there watching television. She walked over to the television and shut it off, then walked over to her husband and said something to him. He got up from the sofa and walked out the door. Her and I then moved all of her furniture to one side of the room. We put the sofa in front of the television so nobody would fall into it. I had a jacket on, a tee shirt, and blue jeans. She was dressed the same. We both took the jackets off, and sat down on the sofa and took off our shoes. Ronnie took our jackets and socks and shoes into another room, and closed the door. She walked over and locked the front door and pulled the shades on the windows. She turned and faced me, and for a minute or so we stood and stared at each other, neither of us saying a word. We finally stepped toward each other, and both raised our fists. Nothing fancy this time, we walked into each other and started swinging. We stood toe to toe for at least 30 seconds punching each other in the face and head. I was able to hit her with a straight left that knocked her back. I rushed over to her and got a head lock on her. I pulled her head down toward the floor, and hit her twice in the face and once in the side of the head. She was able to straighten up and wrap her arm around my head. At first we tried to pull the other off balance, and were not successful, so we started punching each other again. She turned into me so we were face to face and tried to knee me. We each kneed the other three or four times, but our knees kept banging. Ronnie then stomped on my foot, her heel catching my foot dead center right behind my toes. This hurt like hell. I tried again to knee her, and this time hit her in the left rib cage with my knee. She exhaled and groaned, and bent at the knees. She was hurt. I grabbed her by the hair and kneed her in the chest, then threw her onto the sofa. She curled up into a ball and groaned. I asked her if she wanted to quit, and she could not force herself to speak. She slowly and weakly shook her head. Still remembering how she had done me in the previous fight, I forced my big toe into her mouth, and rubbed it back and forth over her teeth and lips. I then pressed her head into the sofa cushion with my foot, and ground my foot into her jaw and ear. I finished by wiping her saliva from my foot with her shirt. This should have been the end of the fighting, but it was not. Apparently Ronnie was not satisfied with a finishing with a 1-1 record against me, she had to prove she was tougher. She wanted to fight again. She called a week later and told me she was not done with me yet. She said give her a month to heal and we would fight again. She wanted one more fight. Ronnie's husband finally got fed up with her abuse and left her. She was not able to afford to live in the house they both lived in, so she rented an apartment. Winter was coming into season, and there was snow on the ground, and it was pretty frigid weather. Ronnie called one day and challenged me to fight. It was too cold to fight outside, and with others in her apartment building, fighting there was not an option. My parents would have killed me if they knew I was fighting a woman, so we could not fight there. Ronnie worked at the high school, and said we could fight in there. The high school had a padded room in which the wrestling team practiced in. Both the floor and walls were padded. The room was kept well heated, too well heated. There was no thermostat in the room, so the furnace was either on or shut off. We decided to meet on a Saturday afternoon. I had the pre-fight jitters that Saturday morning, and my mom knew I was up to something. I was very quiet, not at all hungry, and anxious to use the car. She told me no when I asked to use the car, and thoughts raced through my head of not going there and being thought of as a coward. I asked my dad, and he used the standard ask your mother, and I knew that was a dead end. I kept after my dad, and he finally let me go. I was speeding down the road to get to that school, because I did not want to give Ronnie the right to say I was a no show. I pulled up to the school as she was opening the door. She told me she thought she would have to come and get me, come looking for me. I told her there was not a chance in hell of that. She said she was glad to hear, as she could not stand a chicken shit motherfucker. We got into the school, and walked to the gym, then up some stairs into the padded room. She walked out and turned the heat on. The room was cold as hell, and we could see our breath. I don't know why, but we both took our coats, socks, and shoes off. We could still see our breath, and now were getting cold arms and feet waiting for the furnace to heat the room up. It did not take long, and the room was hot. The room was fairly small, and the noise from the fan made it hard to hear. When Ronnie called to challenge me, and we figured out we would fight in this room, she told me to wear shorts under my jeans, because it would get very warm. Very warm was an understatement, it was hot. We both stepped outside the padded room, taking our shoes, socks, and coats with us. Outside we stripped down to our shorts and tee shirts, and left the clothes in a pile. Ronnie got her pants and shirt off first, and walked into the room and closed the door as she walked in. Being concerned she would jump me as I walked in, I stood outside the door. Finally she asked what I was doing, and I told her I did not trust this situation with her closing the door. She called me a dumb ass, and said she was only wanting to keep the heat in. I walked over and pulled the door open, and saw her standing on the opposite side of the room, leaning against the wall. She told me she did not need to cheat to kick my ass, then said close the damned door. In our first two fights we said very little to each other. This time we talked before fighting. She told me that I had really hurt her the last time, and she was going to make me pay. She told me she was going to hurt me real good this time to teach me a lesson. She got pissed off when I told her I was getting even for what she had done to me in the first fight, and her reply was that she was getting even for Debbie then, and she would get even for herself now. Throughout the entire conversation we stayed as far away from each other as we could, which was weird. The furnace fan made talking almost impossible, so we had to almost shout at each other. We also agreed that this would be the last fight between us, and that the loser had to kiss the winner on the ass, and the winner would get to keep the loser's pants and shoes. After agreeing to this, we each told the other to get fucked, and walked to the center of the mat. I raised my fists as she drew near, but she kept her hands at her sides. As she closed in I prepared to punch her, but she charged into me forcing back into a wall. She had my body pinned against the wall with hers, and had her face pressed against my face. She took her hips back a couple of times and lunged them forward into me. We both had our arms wrapped around the other's neck, and she kept me pinned against the wall. I slid back and forth against the wall trying to get some space between us, or get her off balance, but had no luck. She kept her face pinned against mine, and my body pinned against the wall. The room was getting hotter every second, and we both were sweating profusely, sweat dripping down our bodies, running down our arms and legs, getting into our eyes. Maintaining any hold would be tough, and I struggled to shake myself free. She finally stepped back and tried to knee me, but missed. She tried again, and rammed her knee into my stomach, but that had little affect. Her third attempt at this gave me enough room to break away from the wall. I moved about ten feet from her, and we both wiped sweat from our faces. Then we both put our fists up, and moved toward the other. We started punching each other, but not wild punches, more like a bare knuckles boxing match. We stood there and pummeled each other, fist after fist to the face. We were both getting marked, and both had bleeding noses. I backed away to get a breath, and she stayed away for a minute. We both held our hands in the air, but neither of us moved forward. After another minute or so, we stepped back within range and started punching again. Both of us punched, neither of us ducked or tried to block. She finally was able to hit me with a solid punch in the nose, and I grabbed onto her and held on. I was too hurt to try to throw her or hit her, I just held on. She tried to knee me a couple of times, then hit me in the ribs with some punches. Somehow I got the strength to get an arm around her head and throw her to the ground. Mostly I squeezed her head against my ribs, occasionally pushing her head into the mat, and occasionally hitting her in the face. This went on for about 5 minutes, and she finally gave up. There was a clock in that room, and her and I had fought for about 20 minutes. I rolled off of her, and we both lay still for another ten minutes or so. I got up and got dressed, and did in fact take her pants and shoes. She was too tired to get up, so instead of kissing my ass, I made her kiss every toe on both feet, and kiss my big toes twice. This was the beginning of my mixed fighting "career". Since my first loss to Ronnie, I have only lost one time since to a woman. That was back in February of this year. In case you are wondering, I do plan to have a rematch with this woman. Once we both get a time we can meet and compete, I am confident I will avenge this earlier defeat. Debbie started me on this road to mixed fighting, and it is a road I travel as often as possible. I always look forward to the next female opponent, and always savor the victory. Who's next? Time will tell.