A brief account of my first wrestling adventure 
By Shy Guy, AlisdairM@GreenWarlock.demon.co.uk
Why? How? And what happened? When I wrestled Sonia Fernandez


This is an account of how I discovered female wrestling, why I arranged to 
wrestle with Sonia, and how it all turned out.  In particular I hope it will 
help other newcomers decide on `taking the plunge'.  I went for it, and loved 
every minute.  I am writing this the day after our match, and I am a little 
stiff this morning, with just a couple of aches.  But even these feel good, as 
I can remember how I earned them!

I first encountered Diana's web site just over a month ago, and up until then I 
had though I was possessed by a unique fetish, strong fighting women.  I 
believe this isolation is quite common with people who visit here, and now I 
was presented with goodies beyond my wildest dreams.  I also got to read about 
a lot of female wrestlers in the USA who will entertain a private match for a 
reasonable fee.  I could dream, but in the UK I was a safe distance away, so 
dreams were safe!

Then I discovered the Web site of Sonia Fernandez.  She was gorgeous, she 
appeared to love wrestling, and she was unbelievably local.  Sonia bears a 
striking resemblance to my `dream woman'.  Despite my fondness for fighting 
females, I have always thought a woman's sexiest attribute was her smile, and 
Sonia's is a real winner, going all the way from `warm and friendly' to 
`downright predatory'.  We traded a couple of Emails, and Sonia came across as 
warm, friendly and enthusiastic.  One of my concerns was that when I turned up 
to play, I wanted her to overpower and dominate me completely.  Rather than me 
relinquish control, I wanted her to take it regardless.  She said she was 
looking forward to it!  My other concern was that at 6'4" I may be a little 
tall for her, but she was so confident!

My only remaining worry was that it may be a little expensive for me, but my 
other new hobby on motorsport made that all seem more than reasonable, and as 
this was going to be a once in a lifetime fantasy fulfillment, to an extent, 
the cost didn't matter.  I phoned her up, and booked an appointment for April 
1st (If I was going to make a fool of myself, I would at least do it properly!)

I turned up at one o'clock, still nervous about the meeting.  While I had seen 
and read all about her on the Web, she knew nothing about me apart from what we 
had exchanged in a few Emails, where I was largely a shy fan.  What if she 
didn't like me?

The door opened, and I was greeted by the warm smiling woman of my dreams.  I 
was instantly struck by how well she filled a space.  She wasn't `big' or 
anything, but somehow managed to fill more of a room than her mere body 
occupied!  She was awesome.  Her reaction seemed to be a little surprise at 
quite how tall I was.  Apparently this was still not going to be a problem, but 
she was disappointed that some of her favorite holds, grapevine/smother 
combinations, might not be possible.  There just wasn't enough Sonia to go 
around!

We spent a while making light conversation.  She's great fun to be with, even 
when not wrestling, and this helped me relax.  Eventually the conversation 
moved onto our forthcoming activities.  While I just wanted Sonia to enjoy 
herself, she was concerned that I shouldn't suffer anything too unpleasant for 
me!  We agreed that I wouldn't get knocked out, and probably shouldn't bruise 
either.  This was my first time, and I can be such a wuss!

We then went our separate ways to change.  I had checked with Sonia a week 
before, and brought along a suitable pair of baggy shorts.  She looked stunning 
in her leotard.  We then headed over to the mats to start wrestling.

We started each bout from a kneeling position.  Initially I was disappointed at 
this, I wanted to be taken down from a more familiar standing position.  
Unfortunately, being quite so tall, I don't think Sonia could have done this 
without hurting me more than we wanted, and there may not have been room 
either.  I have little doubt now that she could do it though!  And after the 
first bout, it all seemed so natural anyway, I was worrying over nothing.

We squared off, and Sonia reached out.  Suddenly I was in a tight headlock, I'm 
still not 100% sure where it came from, and as she rolled on top of me I was in 
danger of being suffocated in her breast.  This was more disconcerting than I 
had expected, and possibly a little more exciting.  Now the challenge was 
there, what could I do about it.  I tried wriggling my head free, I had to 
start somewhere, but I couldn't twist too far either way.  I then tried pulling 
it out, finding leverage from my legs through my body.  Don't know how it 
worked, but it meant I that as I pulled, my legs crawled around the mats 
clockwise.  Sonia just rotated on top, so my pull was going nowhere.  I gave up 
after about 1 rotation.  All the time she is teasing me, mocking my efforts.  
But you can hear the smile still, so that's all right!  After a couple minutes 
in this hold, Sonia stopped playing and went for the smother.  As soon as I 
couldn't breath I panicked and tapped a submission.  Sonia released instantly, 
for which I am immensely grateful!  Sonia seemed amused at how easily I 
submitted, as she hadn't actually started the move properly yet.  I was a 
little embarrassed, but a warm smile showed me it didn't really matter too 
much!

I rolled away to get my breath back, and just as I started sitting up again 
Sonia planted herself firmly on my chest, and pinned my arms securely.  This 
was a great hold, as I could stare up into her beautiful face and see how much 
she enjoyed dominating men like this.  While I was in no immediate danger or 
discomfort, I could tell this was not a good position to be in!  So I looked 
for a way out, before Sonia decided to do something here.  As she was sat so 
far up my chest, I managed to curl my back up, and tried to hook under her arms 
with my legs.  I should then have been able to throw her onto her back.  This 
move appeared to catch her completely by surprise. She later told me she hadn't 
expected a tall man to be so supple.  Unfortunately she was just too far up my 
chest, so I couldn't quite hook in.  The surprise did let me twist sideways and 
topple her though, and we wrestled semi-competitively for a minute or so until 
she got me back into the headlock mentioned above.  I would see a lot of those 
headlocks in the next hour, and I wasn't going to catch her by surprise with 
the legs again either, she learns quickly too!

For the final bout of the `first round' Sonia invited me to start on top.  
Fortunately, I spotted that her legs were looking more than a little menacing, 
so I dodged the scissors on my way in, and ended up on top, not in complete 
control, but at least with a temporary advantage.  At this point, I realized I 
didn't know what I was fighting for.  Up to now it had been survival, but now I 
had an advantage I didn't know how to press.  Sonia explained that if I pinned 
both her shoulders to the mat for a pre-agreed count, that would score a point 
if we were wrestling.  We agreed on a count of three, and now I had a goal for 
the session!  Sonia, in the meantime, was only going for submissions.  Pinning 
me for a count would have been too easy!  We then spent a minute as I learned 
to count to two, at which point Sonia would pop a shoulder out and I would 
chase her arm around again for another ten seconds or so.  When she got bored 
with this game, she rolled over and quite shortly I was in a body scissors.  
Before I had turned up, this was the move that most excited me, though I hadn't 
told Sonia this.  That was a good job, because it was intensely painful, and 
she hadn't even started applying any pressure yet!  I submitted instantly, and 
thankfully she released straight away, giggling a little.  I really was a wuss!

At this point we took a break for water, and probably to give me time to 
recover!  Sonia asked if this is what I expected, what I wanted.  She was 
concerned that I should enjoy myself.  I assured her I was!  I had come with 
few expectations, I didn't want to make the day conform to something it wasn't, 
that I had read in some-one else's review.  I wanted to enjoy it for what it 
was.  I did mention it would be quite fun if she could slap me around a bit 
more, so far it had all been wrestling holds.  She got the point very nicely, 
and in the future those gaps where she was sat on top of me, and I was quietly 
catching my breath underneath, might suddenly be punctuated by a few slaps, as 
an encouragement to get back into gear and do something!

We went on to wrestle for around another hour, with a couple more breaks for 
water.  Sonia was on form now I had been warmed up, and I could be scissored 
from any angle on a moments notice!  And now she knew how to tease.  She would 
mock the `big man' being held by a `small woman' who was only using one arm!  
Or she would take an arm or a leg `prisoner', and wouldn't release it unless I 
asked nicely, using her words.  And without giggling (damn that last bit was 
hard!)  Of course, I would try to reclaim my own body parts, but largely 
without success.  At one point she even used my crush on Diana against me. 
(Don't worry Diana, I remained (largely) faithful!) Beware, that disarming, 
friendly pre-match conversation could come back and haunt you!

Sonia also took time to demonstrate a few of the more entertaining holds, such 
as the figure 4 scissors, with my passive help.  Foolishly I agreed to all 
this!  The lady knows her scissors!

I never did get that pin in the end, though in the last bout I did get a 
variation on my leg trick again (Sonia must have been getting overconfident!).  
I managed to curl up and get both knees around Sonia's waist, and squeeze, 
though not too hard as it wasn't a scissor or anything useful.  Still, Sonia 
seemed to appreciate the effort, so that made it worthwhile!  This final match 
ended with Sonia reversing my attempt at a pin into a flawlessly executed 
frontal body scissors, with Sonia beneath and me just falling deeper into it 
under gravity.  OUCH!  Of course I submitted instantly!  Sonia told me that 
technically that was the best executed of her scissors of the day.  She may 
have been saving the best till last, but even with no power in there, I was 
done for!

After the match, we sat around and chatted for what seemed like another hour or 
so!  Sonia is a lot of fun to talk to, and has more than a few good stories 
too!  The whole afternoon was very relaxed, and I didn't feel rushed at any 
point.  I definitely want to do this again!

I had a great time, and if anyone reading this is still unsure of whether he 
wants to wrestle a woman or not, I would urge him to go for it.  And if you get 
the chance to wrestle Smiling Sonia Fernandez (I hope I won't suffer for 
calling her that again!) you really can't afford to miss it.  The only downside 
to wrestling Sonia is you should be prepared to book again.  She may not ask 
this of you, but you will certainly ask it of yourself!

As a final tip, the more accurately you can tell the lady what you want, the 
better the day will go.  I thought I wanted a lot of domination, but I largely 
got a semi-competitive wrestling match.  This isn't because I expressed myself 
badly, it is what I had actually wanted, but didn't know how to ask for it.  
Sonia saw that, and responded.  The domination I sought came through the 
wrestling.