Deep Throat Kiss by Hamlet Annika gave me a long slow Deep Throat Kiss or Stark Hals Kyss as we were waiting in the Bangladeshi restaurant in Deal for the main course to arrive. She held me tightly by the neck as Her tongue went right down my throat Her tongue almost choking me as She drew out the saliva from my mouth as Her jaw clamped down hard on mine, making it almost impossible for me to breathe. 'Stephen this is a Deep Throat Kiss or SHK in which one of the participants ' tongues touch the partner's lips or tongue, entering their mouth. It is a slow, passionate kiss which is usually considered intimate, romantic, erotic or sexual.' 'AN SHK stimulates the partner's lips, tongue and mouth, which are sensitive to the touch. The practice is often considered a source of pleasure. The oral zone is one of the principal erogenous zones of the body.' 'Stephen I want to teach you the basic techniques of an SHK or Deep Throat Kissing or Norse Kissing ' ' Stephen you must move your tongue I will do with you. When the moment seems right, I will seize it and go in for the approach! In general, I will be moving fast enough that the you have no time to say no.' 'When is the moment right Stephen ? It depends on your individual situation, but here are a few signs to keep in mind: ' 'The other person keeps dropping hints, like locking eyes and looking at your lips, or standing progressively closer to you. ' 'Make eye contact. Gaze deeply into the other person's eyes like I am doing with yours. If I want to make my intentions extra clear, slowly move your gaze to your lips, then back up to the eyes. Smile. If you're really excited about the prospect of kissing the other person, show it! A smile keeps the situation light and fun, while helping him or Her feel safe and relaxed. ' 'Take it slow. Move in at a pace that gives the other person no chance to move away.. Don't worry about not going quickly "" the slow approach builds tension and anticipation. ' 'Tilt your head slightly to one side. Meeting head-on will result in bumping noses. Instead, just tilt your head slightly to the left or right. If you notice I am going in one direction, pick the opposite. 'Close your eyes. Just before you make contact, close your eyes. Kissing with your eyes open is generally associated with dishonesty and insincerity.' 'Keep your mouth in a kissable position. Don't present a stiff pucker, like you would if you went in to kiss your grandma "" not only does it communicate non-romantic feelings, it makes it physically difficult for your partner to initiate a SHK. On the other hand, keeping your mouth completely loose and still also says that you're not interested. Here's how to hit a happy medium:' 'Push your lips forward slightly, so that you feel the slightest hint of muscle tension around them. Open your mouth slightly. Instead of going in for a fully open-mouthed kiss at first, keep your lips just barely parted enough that a tongue could slip between them.' 'Lightly brush your lips over the other person's. Use feather-light pressure at first, so that your lips are just barely grazing over your partner's. This builds more anticipation and excitement than diving straight into a full-on SHK.' 'Keep your movements slow. A lot of quick, light kisses don't have the same level of sexiness as a barely-restrained build in tension. Act like you have all the time in the world "" the kiss will speed up soon enough. ' 'Test the waters. Once you've built a solid foundation for a SHK with some tongue less kissing, you can give the other person some subtle hints that you're ready to take it up a notch.' 'Open your mouth more widely. Offering unrestricted access invites the other person to make the first tentative tongue contact. Lock lips, so that the other person's lower lip is between your two lips. Then, lightly sweep the tip of your tongue over the lower lip. Do one smooth, swift motion so that the contact lasts for less than a second. If he or She is interested, they'll reciprocate. ' 'Explore with your tongue. If the other person seems interested, go ahead and start SHK for real. Remember to keep your tongue in motion and your touches light.' 'Stay playful. "Tag" the other person's tongue lightly and retreat back, inviting Her to make the next move. Tongues are loaded with nerve endings, and the mere act of touching your partner's tongue with your own will be very pleasant. Don't go too deep "" jamming your tongue straightaway down the other person's throat is a big turn-off. Stay shallow and light at first. ' 'Breathe. If you're kissing for an extended period, it's easy to forget to breathe. Believe it or not, gasping and turning blue isn't very romantic. Here's how to keep up: 'Mix it up. Kisses are like snowflakes: no two are exactly the same. Once you feel comfortable Norse kissing someone, it is tempting to try to do the same thing every time, but resist. Add variety! Here's what you can vary: 'Use your hands. While you should keep your hands polite, especially on a first kiss, you don't necessarily want them just dangling at your sides. As a general rule, start with your hands on your partner's hips and then slowly move them around their back or up to the face and hair. Another turn-on for the first kiss is to gently caress the other person's shoulder. It shows you are comfortable with him or Her. Cradle your partner's face with your hands on their cheeks and their neck. Or, go for an old standby: simply wrap your arms around your partner in an embrace. 'Read your partner's body language. Everybody kisses a little differently, and each person enjoys different things in a kiss. Good kissing requires give-and-take, so read your partner's body language and pay attention to clues that tell you you're doing something he or she likes.' 'Good SHK like good kissing of any kind, requires practice. You will get better as you do it more. In addition, the more practice you have with one person, the more comfortable you will feel kissing them and developing a style that suits both of you. . 'Freshen your breath. You never want to have bad breath when you are about to kiss someone, whether the kiss is a Norse kiss or not. Because your mouth will be open in a Norse kiss, fresh breath is especially important. Practice good dental hygiene. Always have breath mints or mint-flavored gum if you think there is even so much as a hint of a chance you might kiss. Avoid foods that leave an unpleasant aftertaste or residue, particularly garlic, coffee, onions, milk, and corn. 'There are no rules for how long you should hold a kiss. If you feel Just enjoy it until one or both of you slowly pull apart, usually together. It is extremely romantic to lightly suck your partner's upper or bottom lip as you part. You might find yourselves returning to kissing, after each of you takes a breath. 'Be an active partner, but let the Norse Woman like me play the dominant part. If She is Deep Throat Kissing , do not just sit there but get into the kiss. Reciprocate their actions, but let Her take the dominant role by wanking you with one hand forcefully and holding you by the neck with the other. If you are uncomfortable with any part of the Kiss, try to relax and take deep breaths and endure the pain which may be considerable as She will be holding you tightly and clamping your jaw with Her jaw. . 'Swallow you saliva periodically without breaking the Kiss. If you have trouble doing that, do not be afraid to pull away for a moment, but ask Her permission first.. Smiling when you pull away can reassure your partner that you're just taking a small break, not rejecting their affection. Be aware that DHK is painful and understand that the pleasure of the Norse Woman like Me is what is important top you. Just then Kristina rang again.She really wanted to know what was happening. 'How are you getting on with Stephen Annika? 'Hvordan du faarr paa med Stephen Annika? I'm just teaching him about Kissing! 'Jeg er bare lre ham om kyssing! 'Pass paa aa rense munnen etter kysset ham og pusser tennene, spesielt etter at du har spist alle at utenlandske mookk! Any comments to Norselandic@hotmail.com