Dear Athena
by Athena

Dear Athena,

I've loved muscular women ever since I can remember. I've felt more than mere 
infatuation. I worship my feminine ideal. But alas, I seem destined to always 
admire these objects of my desire from afar. They seem to always like the 
big, muscular types and that's not me. Despite the fact that these macho 
muscleheads often treat their ladies with contempt and disrespect, the women 
I desire continue to yearn for macho.

Goddess, can you help me on my quest?

Name witheld by request

Dear Femuscle Lover,

Women who act like that aren't worthy of your attention!  More importantly do 
you let the women you're attracted to know how you feel about muscular women? 
 Maybe your worship of them makes them feel like an object.  Remember, a 
woman is more than a collection of flexed muscles!  In order to help you win 
the heart of your muscular dream girl I've listed some suggestions below.

THE RULES for Schmoos
(These rules can be used for the as yet un-met woman of your dreams, your 
wife and/or significant other.)
1.  Be honest with the object of your affection (OoYA).  That means don't 
hide what you like and what turns you on.  You may want to start off with 
something that you think would be the least threatening to the OoYA!
2.  Be patient with the OoYA.  It may take a few times for her to process 
everything you've shared.
3.  Be persistent in the face of no results.  You may have to share things 
with her in small increments.  Even though there may be occasional steps 
backward, as long as you keep moving forward that's what's important and what 
you should focus on.  
4.  Be flexible and creative.  If your current tactic isn't working be 
creative and try another tack.  For example, try asking the OoYA to work out 
with you.  Tell her how turned on you are by her lifting weights!
5.  Exchange fantasies with the OoYA.  Start with a fantasy that's the least 
threatening (in the beginning).  If the OoYA is receptive, gradually work up 
to your fbb  fantasies.  Also, be willing to listen to her fantasies.  Act 
them out with her even if they aren't what you'd fantasize about.
6.  Convey your love repeatedly.  This is a crucial step!  And, one that you 
must do repeatedly.  It's critical to let the OoYA know that you are turned 
on by them--that you find them attractive.  Let them know that even though 
you're also turned on by fbb's, you love her!
7.  Be sensitive.  Remember that the OoYA is probably not enamored with fbb's 
and all that goes with it to the degree you are.  So, if she doesn't want to 
watch a video or participate in some other activity related to fbb's with 
you, don't take it personally.  She may just need to take a break from all 
the femuscle life!

Follow THE RULES and you're sure to "get" the OoYA,
Athena

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