How my beautiful wife went from Mommy to amateur bodybuilder and Judo expert Let's get right into it, OK? I will be using our real names since anyone who reads this will know it's us, therefore, there is no reason to bother with fake names. I met Carol in my junior year at Yale. We were both history majors and started dating casually until we fell in love and got married three years later while she was teaching in a local high school and I was almost finished with law school. Like I said, a lot of people will know us in a second after reading just this part! Anyway, I was lucky to land a job in a great law firm, with offices all over the world and even luckier to be named partner in my 8th year. As you can imagine I earn more money than I ever thought I would despite working 80 hour weeks and sometimes 7-days a week so maybe it comes out to minimum wage, ha. By this time we had the twins and two more great children and Carol stopped working years ago. No complaints. I was doing well enough that money was not going to be an issue for us. We were always health conscious, in very good shape, however, over the past several years and based on my insane work schedule that often includes "working lunches and dinners" and cocktails with clients I have put on a few. In the meantime Carol, despite birthing four children became a gym rat and has also earned various degrees in Judo to my amazement. Foolishly, for the first year or more I did not pay much attention to her Judo training, thinking it was just playful "woman" stuff and to her credit, she did not speak about her progress until she earned her blackbelt and began real live fighting/competing, with often times against much younger women who never had one baby, so much FOUR!! I saw her gaining muscle and losing whatever little baby fat she developed over the years but frankly I liked it. Our sex lives never yearned for anything, we were loyal only to one another and I did not pay a lot of attention to her blue belts or even the black belts, at first, or any other color, thinking if she is happy than so am I. Plus I always felt guilty about working so much and missing so many kid events, so I simply let it ride. Carol, in my eyes is the prettiest woman around. At 5'5'' and 125 lbs with a GREAT figure, jet black hair and really beautiful blue eyes, I always thought she was the best looking woman and well above my pay grade. Her natural big breasts, engaging personality, always having a gaggle of friends laughing and having fun and a PRIVATE sexuality and sensuality that was heaven like. I am 5'10, 170, also dark hair and in good shape. Her musculature kind of caught me by surprise in some strange way. All of her friends were what I call "friendly jealous" of her looks. She had it all, in my opinion. The hourglass figure (with FOUR children!!), the sexy muscles, how she carried herself with such confidence, the natural big breasts, well you see I like bragging about her, all made her friends jealous but like I said, in a good friendly way. Her friends behavior reflected their envy in their public and consistent comments. Such as almost every single time we went to dinner or any place else, her friends would always make comments about her physique. They would comment about her muscular arms and muscular back, and on and on it would go, almost all through dinner and this happened ALL the time. It may sound strange to you that I did not notice all the physical changes at first. I work a lot, sometimes as much as 80 hours a week ( my job is all about billing rich clients) plus I have children that I give as much time as possible to. My job, for the most part takes all of my concentration so by the time I get home, between being tired and mentally relaxed, I just did not notice the way I should have. I blame ME not noticing all of these changes on those things. When it first hit me was when friends would mention all of her new muscles to me and ask me what I thought about them and when one of my friends mentioned she received her brown belt in Judo. I swear I was in a fog all that time. Once I did really notice I was not sure what to do with that new information. Meantime Carol was waiting for me to give a damn and she did it in typical Carol, classy and sophisticated style. She did things such as, never asking me to help bring in the groceries and now did it herself, she would carry down all the suitcases when we went on family vacations, she occasionally would flex her abs or ask me if she was getting too muscular in a dress or something when we were going out, etc. Using her parents as babysitters she arranged a 3-day weekend away at a Ritz Carlton in our town. This is something we did from time to time so we could get away and have some private time together, away from work and the kids. These are always great times for us. We dropped the luggage in the room and went right to lunch and began the relaxation and getting to know each other as adults again, process. After 2 glasses of wine she began a very detailed explanation of how much she has physically grown over the years. Obviously I was listening with intent and that grew by leaps and bounds and she started to give me the details about her Judo fighting, how she earned a black belt belt, how she fought/competed 11x and won all these medals, how much she liked it, how she felt more confident than ever before, how she will be a 2nd degree black belt someday, how serious she is about it and how "yes, she can kick my ass", easily, how she has put on 15 pounds of muscle over the past two years, how she has bought all new clothes due to her new muscular physique and she kept going as if the wine was her truth serum. I was dumbfounded to say the least. Over the third glass of wine she talked about her lifting and her new muscles and how important all of that was too her and how much she liked it, how much attention she receives pretty much everywhere she goes and how she knows how busy I am and can understand, to some degree, how I am often somewhere else in my head and did not "get it" and now is the time for me to understand it all. Through her light sweater she did a double bicep pose and I thought I would fall off my chair as she looked me dead in the eyes and said " I like feeling strong and to be honest, I like feeling my own muscles". Seriously, those biceps were in between baseballs and softballs size, as she held it and I stared and could not believe what I was looking at, not to mention others were looking too. Her eyes said to me that she was going to screw my brains out, which is typical of her after just 2 glasses of wine but this was three. I paid the bill and made a quick walk to our room. As we walked towards the elevator I had to admit that I had my head up my ass all this time and apologized to her for that and she was fine with it since she knows I work my butt off for the family. When we got to the room things moved at warp speed since she was feeling loose from the wine and wanted to show me what I was not paying attention to all this time. I felt guilty as she put on a private muscle show for me as she ripped off the sweater and had on a stunningly sexy black bra and string panties as I sat on the bed and watched in awe. She flexed and talked about her lifts, she told me how big her arms were flexed and non-flexed, she crunched her abs and flexed her legs and was very proud of her back muscles. I was in awe of it all and could not believe my beautiful wife was muscular, they were defined and I felt every inch of her and believe me they were hard as rocks. Just amazing. She was super aggressive over the next hour or so as she took control and made love to me and was talking a good game, I mean I was taken by surprise by it all and I was getting more and more into it. After two orgasms we were laying there, her on her back and me next to her and I could not stop admiring all of her muscles and feeling like an ass that I missed or was not fully aware of how she changed. We are deeply in love and I loved that she was into developing her body the way she did. When we moved into the shower I made sure it was ALL about her as I soaped her from head to toe and complimented her the whole time ( I always did that anyway since I have always thought she is the sexiest and prettiest woman around) and she loved it and that made me happy. Several times she grabbed my hand and directed it where she wanted me to go. Often times she directed them to her biceps and pecs and flexed them, I think more for herself than me, but it was fantastic. I dried her off and spent some time putting moisture lotion all over her and with pleasure gave her oral as she stood in the bathroom admiring herself in the mirror. We went to dinner that night and I asked her for details about this Judo thing. She blushed at first but I saw she wanted to talk about it and that was great. She wore a sleeveless and backless black dress and looked more beautiful than ever with her hair in a bun and wearing a diamond necklace I bought for her for our last anniversary. She told me she started the Judo training because one of her friends was doing it and it looked like a good way to exercise differently, more than just weight lifting. She told me that it was a turn on at first to see her friend, who had her black belt, choking people out and pinning people to the mat. I was curious so I asked her, a turn on? She put her head down and blushed again and after a few quiet seconds she admitted, yes it is a turn on to put a grown man to sleep or put them in bad enough pain where they submitted to her and when she said this I saw her breathing change and her nipples begin to get hard. I paused and looked at her as she turned her head away from me a little embarrassed. I pushed on and asked her for more specifics. It took a while for her to come clean but she said, yes, using my new muscles and strength it is a SERIOUS turn on to use my new skills and dominate these people. These people, I asked? Yes, men, I find it, dominating these men and sometimes young men and sometimes men our age, and feeling them go limp when I choke them out is just a feeling that I find rewarding and ... ..she paused ... sexual too. She added, when I say go limp, I mean there bodies go limp when I render them unconscious and then she paused and said, well not the whole body goes limp, and she laughed, one part gets rather hard, and she got red as a beet and looked at her salad. It is not common for me to speechless but this is one of those times. I finally looked her in her eyes and said, baby, do you want to try your Judo on me or something? With a grin from ear to ear she smiled and stood up, threw her napkin down and said, I thought you would never ask, I will meet you upstairs in 5 minutes and she walked out. Again, SPEECHLESS as I watched her walk away and finally noticed her back muscles dancing and popping as she did. When I walked into the half dark room seeing the silhouette of her muscular body ( I was finally getting it) stretching in ways I would have bet anything she could never do, was breathtaking and intimidating. My wife the athlete? My wife the strangely muscular mother? And she wants to to do Judo with me and is obviously ready to do so? I just stood there and watched and yes very aroused as she went through the motions dressed in a pair of small shorts and cutoff t-shirt that revealed all of her muscles. She looked up at me and told me to get dressed and pointed to the bed where she put my t-shirt and shorts. I stripped and got dressed and was just marveling at this woman, MY WIFE!!!! When she was done she walked over to me, chest to chest pretty much and I thought she was going to kiss me as I felt her nipples pushing into my chest and her pelvis touching my erection but she just spoke to me. Her warm breath and lips just inches from mine. She said, I want to apologize in advance baby but I am really good at this and I think I am stronger than you too and she pushed off my chest and backed up. It was crazy but for some reason I was excited to see what she would do. I guess I would say I was puzzled by the whole thing but very curious. She stepped back and gave me a look I have rarely seen from her, the best way to describe it was "deadly serious" I suppose. She walked around the room a little and asked me if I was ready. I smiled but I know it was a weak one since I was actually intimidated by all of what I was seeing. She nodded at me and in one motion I barely saw grabbed me by my shirt flipped me over her leg on to the bed and moved her body around as she held my arm and bent in a way that I literally yelped in pain until I heard her say, "say you submit to me" or it will get worse! I tried for like 2 seconds to wiggle away but it was IMPOSSIBLE and I said I GIVE, and she let me go and sprang to her feet as I rolled around in pain on the bed. I was in fact angry! The pain was excruciating and she did this in like 5 seconds . I got to my knees on the bed and was rubbing my arm as she stood there with her hands on her hips and just nodded but did not say a word. With a deep voice and was serious, she walked over and said " see who I am now?" and the room was stone silent. I got to my feet and kept my distance and said, "are you serious about this" "about fighting me". She smiled and said, you don't understand baby, I am really good at this, it may be ME who is the alpha now and she laughed out loud. I looked at her and got angry and said OK, you really want to go at this? She laughed a little and said " Yes, I REALLY want to go at this in a mocking tone, why you wanna try again? Now it was my manhood at stake and I was not happy despite her body language which included a quiet confidence and nipples that looked as hard as ever. I said OK, ready? She stretched her neck a little back and forth and said yes. For a few seconds we played with each others hands as I tried to grab her and then in a blink she grabbed me and pulled me into and past her and that is when it all went black. I was officially choked out by my wife. Period and end of story. Blinking my eyes open as she sat on my belly, now with her shirt off and pinning my hands down by my head I heard her voice. Seriously, I was just knocked unconscious by MY WIFE!!!! She held my hands still and told me in no uncertain terms that she is a black belt in Judo and can easily do all of this over and over again until you beg me to stop or to the point I need to see a doctor. She then told me to open my mouth and I did and she drooled her spit into my mouth and smiled and laughed and said, this is more fun and a lot easier than I thought it was going to be. I struggled to free my hands but couldn't and then she took my left fist and began using MY fist to punch myself in MY face until I was embarrassed enough to yell STOP although she kept it up for a while longer. She was laughing and said, don't you see I have TOTAL control of the situation? She kept me in that position, pinned, and spoke to me in GREAT detail how strong she is and how much she loves the art of Judo and that If I ever ask her to "fight" again, I would regret it. Using her best baby voice, She told me that SHE is the alpha dog now but still loves me to death and talked about all the men she beat in the dojo and how most of them either ask her out or never make eye contact with her. This went on for a solid hour until I agreed to everything she said. When she finally released me she moved her pussy over my mouth and moved it back and forth until she came and was oblivious to the fact I was there. Then she stood up over me and reached out her hand and I paused for a while until she said "grab my hand sweetheart or I will hurt you" and I did grab it and she pulled me up and hugged me and apologized for being so rough but I felt her laugh when she did. Without a word she lead me into the shower where I showered her once again as she spoke in even more detail about her new muscles, strength and acumen in Judo. So how are we now, 4 months after all of this? Great in all ways. She is extremely dominant in private, I did see her compete in this huge gym one time and she had 4 matches VS other women and she won all 4 with three being quick (2 painful submissions and one choked out pretty badly because the ref was slow in stopping it) and the 4th took longer and was competitive but she choked that lady out too. She decided not to add any more muscle on so not to become too crazy looking (her words) and has started training me in Judo, in our home, but that is very rudimentary at best and I have no plans of taking this anywhere. Bottomline- things are excellent. I am one proud husband.