An old girlfriend and a chance meeting CONTINUED Six years ago my life changed forever when I bumped into an old girlfriend from college. Two years have passed since the fateful night I re-met my old college girlfriend. And quite the few years it has been, some very good and some very bad. The very good is we now live together and have moved to another city where I opened a new practice and she is still working as the head nurse in the same hospital as before. She is studying for her Ph.D which is tremendous and athletically she has had four more professional boxing matches and has won all 4 by decision and they were very one sided in that she won all the rounds in each. Also, have started training in boxing too, not to compete but just get in better shape. I really like it, see my body changing in ways I never thought would happen and I have developed a new confidence about myself. I was scared about sparring at first but after I took some good shots, got a few bloody noses and gave a few myself I really enjoy it. Like I said, this is as far as I plan on taking this sport. Another positive aspect of my training is it gives Sara and I more to talk about and in private standing face to face with her I feel more "manly" than before. NO, I am not saying I am a better fighter than her since that would be foolish. She is a professional fighter with more stamina and I guess more everything than I will ever have. I freely admit that and of course, she also freely reminds me All the time. What can I say? Meantime, She has been rough with me but nothing like that first night. We have sparred at the gym but of course despite our size difference, she beat me from post to post until she dropped me and had me woozy. And yes that was with headgear of course which is the ONLY way I spar. She of course loved it. And I loved that she loved it since I was the benefactor of her love afterwards. I am really in love with this woman. We have a great time together, always laughing, intellectual high brow conversations about medicine and science and we laugh all the time. No question physically I am like in a trance when around her as I find her stunning in every way. Never being into muscles before, I get SO darn turned on by her biceps, back, stomach and leg muscles it amazes me still. She knows exactly how to stop me in my tracks and get me going and at this point I can do the same to her. We have had sex EVERYWHERE, details are not important, but we carry on like teenagers. She knows what to whisper to me in public to get me aroused and what to wear to drive me insane, ha ha. After each of her last professional matches we screwed our brains out in the hotel room which was a blast and that was even before she showered!!! She has more energy than anyone I know and a libido to match. I am blessed to have found her back in my life. Even her dirty, cursing mouth does not bother me like it used to at the beginning. God knows the girl can curse with the best of them!! The bad stuff is I am in the middle of a divorce and dealing with that and my 4 kids does bring a lot of tension to my life. No avoiding it. Sara is a great person in most every way. She has expanded my life allowing me new perspectives in how I look at things, is always upbeat and fun and of course she has the best body ever. I have never thought twice about a muscular woman but now with her I am so into the whole thing. Sara has gotten more muscular over these past 2 years, has gained a good 7-10 lbs of muscle and is now fighting at 135lbs and looks super amazing all the time. I have never had this much sex ever in my life which is always super cool. She is aggressive, demanding, take charge and kinky as hell but in a good "normal way. She loves to role play and has a lot of outfits to turn herself on and role play. I mean various wigs, costumes ranging from Super Woman to the classic maid to a street whore and everything in between. She still gets off on slapping me around, sometimes until I am bleeding and woozy, but it's all in good fun and we have our safe word that I have used on SEVERAL occasions. Just last night we were role playing that I was one of her X husbands who saw her on the beach in a bikini and commented on all of her extra muscle and she took offense and ended up slapping me around the bedroom until I was crying and covering up in the corner when I was getting dizzy from the head slaps and was yelling the safe word longer than I would have liked, but like I said, good fun for the most part. All of this may sound odd to many, however, for those of you who are married to a professional athlete you get it. One very fun thing she did 4x so far was she got into this type of fighting where it is like kickboxing except it is done with open hands and no gloves. More or less it is slapping an opponent and kicking them like in kickboxing. A friend of hers told her about it and then she tried it, liked it and had 4 matches. It was really a lot of fun to watch and she won all 4 although one was close but seeing her slap these other athletic women and kick them to the mat was fun fun and fun. It also got some of that energy she has out of her and onto her opponents and not me, ha ha , which was good. Being slapped by a professional boxer is pretty bad despite the fact it got her off and me some awesome sex afterwards. Unfortunately, we had one pretty bad thing happen to us or I should say her. And it actually happened twice and has been a game changer. Sara wanted to expand her boxing career and do more of it since finding bouts has been tough. She heard about these "regulated" boxing tournaments where women, from all over, box each other for good amounts of money too. They are held all over the world and to get in one must prove a level of competence. Since she is a pro boxer that part was easy. She was looking into one in Colorado and after we discussed it she was all in. I was not happy about it since as I perused the other fighters resumes and saw some videos and pictures on their VERY secure website I thought that some of these women were too raw. Meaning, some had a lot more experience, others looked like bodybuilders and others were street fighters. None of this was Sara. Sara is muscular yes that we know, she can box but she is not huge, not a streetfighter and not some tough woman looking to throw her fists in a parking lot or someplace. Anyway, Once she gain approval the organizers sent her videos of all the other women. All of them have participated in these events before except Sara and that was not an issue for her but it was for me. We watched the video more than once let's say and of the 14 other women entering this, all seemed formidable. Naturally, some more than others but suffice it to say all of them could have kicked my ass and that includes me after all of this training. The money was pretty good and that was a factor since my divorce was costing me a fortune and we lived really well, mostly off me. In the first tournament she was doing great, better than I hoped for. The first woman she faced was an old bodybuilder who could not fight a lick and Sara beat the hell out of her and scored her first knockout of her life, in the ring at least. That was very very cool I have to say. Wearing 4 oz gloves and no headgear Sara just beat her senseless. As a doctor I understand the medical issues here and how devastating those may be. However, as her biggest supporter seeing her athletic body whip this huge muscular older woman and rip punches into and on her and seeing the glee of joy on her face and her total ELATION when she knocked her out cold, it was all worth it. Not to mention she was more than usual super sexually charged afterwards. Her next 3 fights were not as easy but she won them fairly easily and one sided. They were all TKO's. I was proud of her. The semi-final fight was against an older foreign woman, although she was an American. I will not give her name out for a variety of reasons. She was super attractive, more muscular than Sara and I would say 40 something. Supposedly from Israel. Because this woman won all of her fights by knockout, it was her choice to the style of fighting and she chose bare fisted boxing Vs Sara. I flipped out and was totally against it and I mean TOTALLY against it. I thought it was absurd but it was Sara's decision so whatever happened was on her. The afternoon of the fight I saw she was nervous as I was too. A lot of people told us that this Israeli woman is a phenomenal fighter who has natural KO power in each hand and liked hurting people. I went online and studied her the best I could. There were lots of comments by a boat load of people that discussed how vicious she was in the ring, lots of stories about her personal life and sexual exploits but once I found her website I understood that she was FAR more than Sara can handle.The more I heard the more I wanted her to just leave and screw this but she insisted on fighting and making the money. What happened was horrific. This woman beat her so bad I had to turn away and it only lasted two rounds!! After the first one sided round Sara looked like she was hit with 10 frying pans. She was bleeding from BOTH eyes and ended up getting 11 stitches in one and 9 in the other. Her lips were swollen and her body had welts PLUS she was wobbled once and took a knee for a standing 8- all within 3 minutes!!! Meantime, the other woman laughed off her body attack and pretty much nothing else stuck to her. In the corner Sara was breathing heavy and looked scared and we both knew it. The second round was UGLY and scary. This rather beautiful Israeli lady jabbed her face until I had to turn away as Sara was bleeding a lot. The woman had more speed and far greater power than even my Sara. When I turned I heard the crowd cheer and heard a thump and when I turned back there was Sara, on her stomach and as unconscious as one can be. Lying there on the canvas as people applauded what they saw. I ran into the ring and rolled her over and took out her mouthpiece but she was still unconscious and it scared the heck out of me. Holding her beautiful body and seeing her breathe was fine but she looked like hell after the worst beating I ever saw in my life. After a good 20 seconds she opened her eyes and just grabbed me and held me tightly and was crying and I never saw her cry. I let her stay in that position until I was relatively confident she could stand up. After a while I helped her up and looked over and the other woman was standing there, doing these muscle poses with a shit eating grin and she was TOPLESS!!!!! I mean I could not believe my eyes. The total humiliation and destruction of a professional boxer, all within minutes, just minutes, so overpowering and one sided was depressing to see. Now she is topless, not a scratch on her body and her body was quite amazing and throwing it in Sara's face infuriated me. She walked over to us and had her body like a fraction from Sara's and stared at her and said " nice fight but you know now NEVER to step in the ring with me again or next time I will really hurt you". I could not believe my ears. I said, move out of the way now so I can take care of her. She gave me this death stare and said and I will never forget it, "watch your mouth my friend or I will break you in places you cannot imagine". That look in combination with that body, which was seriously all muscle and was like Sara in the way meaning, super feminine and sexy, and seeing what she just did to my girlfriend, I knew to keep my mouth shut. Meantime I had to take care of Sara IMMEDIATELY. She could barely stand up without my help and knowing how hard she has worked for YEARS to make her body strong and powerful, lifting and all she did and now holding her broken and pummeled body made me sad. Sara had to spend 2 nights in a nearby hospital as I wanted her body x-rayed and she needed stitches and fluids asap. I stayed all 2 nights in the hospital with her as the promoters paid for everything and were rather nice. They told me more about this woman. How she was born in Israel and came here at age something or other and has 2 kids now and lives in Florida and how she is a fixture at these things and how this is what she does. Meaning destroying people in the ring. Whatever!! My goal was taking care of Sara. I am sad to say that Sara was never quite the same. She lost her next two professional fights, close but losses. She became more violent with me and I could not stop her onslaught half the time and had no interest in being her punching bag. We went into couple therapy and that helped bring us back. She took a full year off of fighting and then after that year off came back with a vengeance. During that year she added on more muscle and weight as all she did was lift. A very solid 140 lbs. not an ounce of fat, more defined muscles than ever before and seriously strong, no joke. It was amazing seeing her body react to the weights. Without clothes she was INTIMIDATING to look at and always remained feminine and sexy. I had my Sara back. When she went back to pro boxing she not only won her next 4 matches that year but ALL were stunning and dominant performances that ended in knockouts. I was so proud of her!! I have to say after those fights the sex was off the charts. I felt great for her and sung her praises all the time to her and everyone else. We even took a vacation to St. Thomas and besides having sex on the beach which was awesome and we knew people were watching, so many people told us what a great couple we were. It was there I proposed to her since I was officially divorced 5 months before. Life was excellent. However ... ... ... ... ... ... ... .. Sara wanted her revenge whereas I was TOTALLY AGAINST IT. I did my research on this Israeli woman, I went to her website a bunch, I read the blogs, the things written on the "wall" of her site, I knew better. She was at a different level than Sara. Think about the fact that this woman grew up FIST FIGHTING, that is insane, tough, brutal and much different than the way Sara fights in her controlled yet violent world. But there was no stopping her. Sara did research on this woman and discovered she had a website and one that is VERY detailed. Meaning, hundreds of pictures, a LOT of videos of her fights, there is this Wall where people write to her and I read the entire thing and to this day STILL read it and watch those videos. Let's just say, she is the most lethal fighter I ever saw. Seeing her beat on men bigger than me and knock them out cold sent chills up my spine. I begged Sara to stay away, why bother, just be with me and live life but she wanted her revenge. A telling sign of this women's lethal power was watching some of her fights in slow motion. You could see her muscles like exploding in her arms when she made contact with her opponents face or body and then seeing her opponents crumble or react to the sharp pain of their ribs, nose or jaw breaking was in some ways down right frightening, literally frightening, to scared for my wife's safety. Sara has progressed 10 fold since we first met in terms of muscle, strength and skill. But this Israeli woman was on a different level. I saw her, with my own eyes, on her videos from her website, knock MEN out with either hand!!!! Seeing that was so crazy to me, seeing these men, good fighters too, being punched all over their bodies with a speed and accuracy that was impressive and then being knocked unconscious. I saw women being ruined, is the best word, as she methodically and surgically beat them at will like she did Sara. I did NOT want my Sara to get involved with this woman ever again. But she was determined to avenge this loss for some reason. So we went ... I will say this. We traveled to Florida for a "private match" with this lady and it ended up being the worst day of my life. Worse than getting divorced and dealing with the financial ramifications of that not to mention facing my kids, hands down. They fought in this gym on a Sunday morning, they wore gloves and the only people present were me, her husband, some guy filming it and a referee. Her husband, who seemed OK to me, kept the time. It was supposed to be 10 rounds and 3 minutes per and wearing 8 oz gloves. What happened was a 5 round massacre. In the stone quiet gym they weighed in first with Sara at 141lbs and this other woman at 144lbs. However, their body styles told another story. Yes, Sara is amazing to me for sure but this Israeli woman looked harder. Her core looked like I could hit it with a bat and she could take it, her back also told a story as it was as defined and muscular as any I have seen. When she walked around the ring the muscles in her back danced around and she looked VERY confident. They had similar size arms except the Israeli woman looked more powerful, I know I cannot describe that better but it was how they looked. Both women are beautiful I will say that. I cannot believe Sara was able to stand up as long as she did to those blows. Sara landed some nice ones too but nothing in comparison to this Israeli lady. There was one point that Sara was lifted off her feet, yes 100% true, by 3 uppercuts to her steal abs. And my wife has STEAL ABS believe it. When I watched the fight on her website, in slow motion, and I concentrated on this woman's arms seeing her HUGE biceps in those uppercuts with the shoulders striated and all it seriously looked like a man's arms they were so pumped up. She is one of those people who looks muscular walking around but when she flexes it goes to another level. Hearing those punches land in an empty gym was chilling too. It was clear to me that Sara was being toyed with and that her opponent could have ended it much quicker. Plus the crap this woman was saying during the match, my god, made me furious I swear. Mean and nasty things that were driving me crazy. In between each round I nicely would say things to Sara like "OK you made your point we do not need this lets go back to the hotel" but Sara kept saying fuck this cunt I am going to fucking kill her" Yes, her mouth is filthy!!! Sara was out on her feet at least 3x during the fight and all the other woman did was drill her body instead so NOT to KO her and obviously punish her which made me so angry but there was nothing for me to do. Picture my beautiful Sara out on her feet, sweat and blood pouring over her and her gloves up by her face with her beautiful muscles all flexed and then seeing her opponent walloping on her body and I could see the defeat and pain all over Sara's face. I hated it. During one of those times she had Sara on queer street from serious vicious and powerful head shots and she took her glove and just stuck it in Sara's face and leaned back and belted her belly to the point Sara's mouthpiece would be spit out and then she would back off and talk shit and laugh in Sara's face that was racked in pain. Several times I looked at her husband with his stop watch but he just shrugged his shoulders and smiled at me. When she came back to the corner, always staggering and never able to walk back easily, at the end of the 4th she looked horrible. Not bleeding as much as their first fight but more swollen and clearly spent. I implored her to let me throw in the towel but she told me if I did she would beat the fucking shit out of me so that was that. I looked up when I heard the bell ring for the 5th and I see the other woman topless again. Look she is a beautiful woman with one of the best bodies I ever saw, better than Sara, yes that is true. But I did not understand the point of doing that except to simply showoff her tits and not that they were big or anything. Whatever. When I went to put Sara's mouthpiece in she could barely open her mouth which made me think, and I found out later, I thought correctly, her jaw was broken. I helped her stand up and she walked towards this maniac of a lady as this asshole person filmed away for her website. Sara walked towards her in obvious pain and missed badly with some jabs and the rest was so ugly I cannot write about it except to say she was knocked out cold, thankfully, at 1 minute and 3 seconds of that round. Same thing as last time when I hopped into the ring and rolled her over to care for her. She was soaking wet with sweat, that hard luscious body that I made love to the night before was broken as were her spirit. Her eyes looked sad as I held her. All of that working out, lifting and running and training as a professional boxer, this super fit, tight and hard muscled body she and I were so proud of was now useless, beaten, swollen and broken. Her opponent stood over us the whole time making jokes even when Sara opened her swollen eyes. And she would not stop posing her muscles all over the damn ring and the damn smack talking was infuriating me. People always ask when I tell the story, so did you push her away and tell her to shutup? The fact is that Sara could beat me and and I knew that- many many times that was proven trust me. Sara was stronger than me and of course a better fighter. Look without getting into the details, Sara has proven to me countless times that she wore the pants in our family. If I tried to do anything to her opponent who methodically made my wife, this professional boxer, into an unconscious beaten, physically and mentally person, she would have killed me. Dumb I am not. My job was to tend to my wife and get her the heck out of there asap. Worst thing EVER, was when I had Sara standing, she was made to kiss her opponents abs, breasts biceps and fists as I was forced to do the same thing and it was all on camera and now on her website. Think about the degradation with that scene. My wife, the beautiful Sara, just got beaten worse than ever in her life AND was knocked out cold and could barely stand up afterwards and she AND I were made to do those things to this damn woman!!! I saw it myself many times when visiting her website. When you go to her website and watch this fight you will see my hands and legs shaking as I was told to "suck her breasts harder and longer" as she rubbed my head and laughed in Sara's face and mine too. I never have sucked Sara's breasts as long or as hard but here I was sucking this SOB's sweaty breasts. Not much bigger than Sara's and like hers, all muscle. When I was made to suck her biceps and lick them and all of that, it scared me, really did and Sara knew it which made it worse. At one point, Sara was sucking her breasts, those sweaty disgusting breasts of the woman who just totally screwed up her head not to mention ripped up her body and Sara is making those sucking sounds too and with the Israeli lady's breasts in her mouth she slightly turns her head towards me and sees me, HER HUSBAND, sucking and licking her opponents biceps. HORRIBLE!!!!!!!!!!! Meantime her opponent sees this and is cracking up calling us all kinds of names. HORRIBLE!!!!!! As a man it was just god damn HORRIBLE. I am now separated from Sara which sucks on every level. Sara became very bitter afterwards and violent towards me which I cannot stand for. She beat me up in our home FOUR different times, all barefisted and she really hurt me each time not to mention the verbal abusive things she said to me. I will never live like that. One time she beat me up 2 days before I was going to see my kids and picking them sore and in sunglasses is something I cannot live with. This Israeli lady ruined our lives, simple as that and there is nothing I can do. Her damn website is as popular as any I have ever seen and since it is free it gets more attention than I can deal with which is why I am not using my name or her opponents. My life is in shambles, 2 x-wives, children and the embarrassment of appearing on a god damned website forever. Yes, I tried to get my attorney into this but I did sign papers and did not read it thoroughly and she has the right to use that video on her god damn website. That's it!!!!!!! Why did I write about all of this? First my shrink recommended I write about but then throw it out. I figure this'may be a learning experience for someone out there. Do not travel to Florida to fight some Israeli lady and avoid her like the plague. Don't even get involved with female fighters, not worth it. They live in a different place and it is not worth it, trust me.