Tamra

How I began dominating my boyfriend and how we both love it now.


My name is Tamra and I live in Washington with my boyfriend Ronnie. We both
work for a well known tech company, where we met, in beautiful Washington
State. I come from a great family and was raised on the east coast, my dad is
black and my mom is white and I have 2 brothers. I am 28 years old, never
married and no children and have more white features than black one's. The
entire family has always been super athletic. For me I did everything and
played every sport and excelled at them all, however, what I got really into
at age 14 or so was power lifting. It just happened and I loved it and was
good at it but like all kids I got bored easily and then moved on to
bodybuilding through a friend at the gym. From 16-almost 20 I was obsessed
with it as my body really took to it naturally. I say naturally even though I
admit towards the end to trying the juice. I am 5'7' and naturally muscular
but when doing the bodybuilding I got huge and because of the people I hung
around with it was a lifestyle I was in. I dated fellow bodybuilders too even
though in most cases they were so self absorbed and so into their dieting they
were annoying and later with some more experience I came to learn they were
horrible in bed which was always important to me! I always thought that was
funny, being so into their body but terrible in bed. Anyway, I did that until
my senior year and then decided to stop and get more into physique stuff and
got back into all the other sports I loved so much and was good at. Nowadays,
between work and some sports I got into MMA. I never liked fighting even
though my Dad taught me how to box on the heavybag we had in the basement but
I never really had a fight, a real fight. Never my thing until I took up MMA
and got into it to the point where I have had 16 amateur bouts and won 12 of
them, 9 by submission and 3 knockouts with the gloves. My goal is NOT to go
professional and stay at this level just for fun. My 4 losses were all
decisions. And I do not "street fight" or do anything like that, just a simple
MMA athlete who wants to keep my face and wits about me. My boyfriend Ronnie
is SUCH a dream of a man, he is really perfect in every way. A white guy all
the way, ha ha, 6 feet 190 pounds of deliciousness all over. Smart and funny
and someone I will marry someday I hope. Ronnie dabbles in MMA but never had
any real fights yet and may never have any and keeps in great shape with
everything else. We make a great looking couple and we truly are in love.

Ronnie and I have been dating for over 2 years and everything is really good.
We met each others parents and families and everyone gets along and even my
Dad approves of him. We have excellent jobs, good friends, we laugh a lot and
I have to admit I am in love with this man. Our sex is fantastic in every way.
We both are VERY active, love trying different things, I dress up for him, we
experiment with different things, we are loyal to one another and love the
others body. I am still rather muscular as he is and we enjoy that too and
when on vacation in bathing suits we get a LOT of attention and we both love
that too since we both have great bodies that we are proud of and LOVE sharing
with each other Neither one of us thought we were into domination or anything
like that up until 4 month's ago.

This is GREAT!!! Four month's ago we came home from watching a friend compete
in MMA and as is typical we were both eager to get home so we can start making
love. I dressed up in one of my MMA outfits, shorts, sports bra and gloves and
I was fooling around shadow boxing and then dropping to do 25 push ups and
back to shadow boxing as he laid in bed with his erection telling me what to
do, it was fun. I am a little sweaty and he tells me to take my top off which
I gladly did. Ah, my measurements are 36 D (natural thank you very much) 25-34
and like I said muscular. So there I stood shadow boxing and dropping to the
floor as he wanted me to do push ups and he took off his jeans and was
stroking his big manly cock which drives me INSANE, ha ha. I took off my
shorts and now I was totally naked and sat on his cock for what is always
SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much fun, haha. I started to ride him like he wanted
as he played with my nipples and told me how hot I was. I should mention that
sometimes I can ride him for as long as 30 minutes and I am telling you that
feeling for both of us as we are both very verbal about each other's body is
the best sex ever anywhere and we both love it. I was in control of this one
since I was on top and I was riding him and telling him how handsome he was
and how big his manly cock was and he is rubbing my 6 pack abs and playing
with my nipples and I am bending down kissing him a lot as my breasts rub
across his and I was lost. I usually am with him, I get lost in this orgasmic
wave of heaven with a handsome and wonderful man. I was not keeping time but
it was long and I saw my abs getting more defined from this exercise and I was
doing muscle posing for him since he liked that and he was showing off his
ample biceps for me and I was kissing them a lot too I remember. His big
strong hands were all over my body and he was telling me how much he likes to
watch me fight and beat up "those other" girls, ha ha and I was like I said
getting lost. I thought I heard him say hit me but to this day neither one of
us is sure he said it. Then for no reason except that I thought I heard it and
I was lost and about to explode another huge orgasm I picked up my right hand,
and I was STILL wearing the MMA gloves (he bought me) and I came down hard
THREE times on his face, 2 fast one's and then seeing his eyes roll back and
the orgasm going thru my body another hard blow to his unprotected handsome
face as his big manly cock was DEEP inside me. That third punch knocked him
out cold and even though I was shocked I did it, it was so hot so sensual I
orgasmed watching his face with it's closed eyes and slight blood oozing out
of the corner of his mouth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It was fucking
unbelievable!!!!!!!!!!!!! I rode him and came in such a wild orgasm it was
tremendous. Meantime he had to have been unconscious 25 seconds or more and as
I was cumming I was laughing I did it. It was great.

When his eyes flickered open and caught mine I was scared in some ways and
meantime I felt him cum inside me at the same time. He opened his eyes and I
wiped the blood from his mouth and we both stared at each other and I said "
yes" and he said, did you just ... .. and I said YES and laughed. He said, you
just knocked me out????? And I said yes I did and laughed again but a nervous
laugh. I sat there with his cock still in me and kissed him and asked him if
he was OK and I apologized but saying " Ronnie, I am So sorry for knocking you
out" got both of us excited, I swear. I felt powerful and strong and in total
control. He never looked weak to me and I know he was not ready for it and was
unprotected but truth be told, and ONLY since I have had real fights and train
more than him I am not so sure who would win in a real fight nor did I care to
find out. But there I sat with his cock inside me feeling sexy and he loved
it.

I sat there and repeated " I just knocked your shit out white boy" and we
laughed but it was sexy for both of us and we both liked it. I have to say
having him inside me which I love and seeing him breathe slowly as he was
unconscious, seeing the blood drip out of the corner of his mouth on that
handsome face and knowing I just knocked him out so easily, yes I know he was
unprotected but still, had me So sexed up it was awesome. Then I started
posing my hard rock hard I should say and muscular body for him and felt him
letting hard inside me again. By the way MANY times he was able to go twice
while still inside me!!! And as I felt him filling me up with that delicious
cock that I love to screw and suck I started talking some trash about how
strong I am and how much we both enjoyed that. He smacked my abs and face a
few times and said" c'mon tough girl think you can do that when I am looking
at you this time and back and forth we went as I rode him and we talked trash
back and forth when I lightly hooked his jaw first with my left and then with
my right, maybe 50% strength when he reached up and punched me in my jaw
pretty hard which I did not like and I told him that. He said, tough shit lady
which I did not like since hitting me was nothing I would accept in any
relationship. When I did he punches me with all of his might in my abs while I
was still on top of him and he was inside me. And like I told him when he
punched me in my abs I liked the fact that it hurt but not bad enough where I
was crying or had to get off of him- looking deep inhis eyes after that moment
was telling- it told him that the thousands upon thousands of crunches and
everything else I can IN FACT take a punch from him, a man who is is ingreat
great shape and stronger than me and stronger than most guys I bet, but I took
it and I knew then I was going to dominate this man, MY MAN, and have fun!!!!
That hurt but I am trained for such things and threw my hardest punch possible
down on his abs. He let go with a big AGH and cursed me and then for no reason
besides I liked it I threw down two hard as possible punches to his face again
and just like that he was unconscious again but not as bad as last time. This
time his eyes rolled back and he was gone for like 10 seconds but I orgasmed
like a wild woman this time again and have no idea if he did at that moment. I
sat there admiring what I did, and can do I guess to my boyfriend. It was
GREAT. It took him a few good minutes to come to himself and when he did he
wanted to finish his orgasm and like always he did because I allowed him to do
so!!! .

I LOVED it and so did he. We talked like the lovers we are about this new part
of our lives. He admitted he liked it, he admitted that he liked being
dominated sometimes and I never knew that. Later on when he dominated me ( I
may get to that later) I was not as big a fan as he was of being dominated.

Our sexual relationship has flourished a lot for domination now including some
dom outfits I wear for him, we go shopping into stores and sometimes online
but more stores and buy outfits we both like, a strap- on I put on and make
him blow me which is amazing fun so much more than I ever would have thought
seeing him on his knees telling me how strong I am or saying "please mistress
do not beat me up or knock me out and seeing his huge erection as he begs me
and sucks that big black dildo we bought as I push it deep into his mouth and
call him names and then that knob pushes into my pussy is just beyond words
fun, I have him wearing a bra to dinner under his dress shirt and nobody knows
except me and sometimes I have him unbutton his shirt a few buttons to expose
the bra slightly and tell me how powerful I am and how hot I am and how he is
worthless OMG just writing this is getting me wet, he has 7 different dresses
for the house and other outfits like 2 lingerie outfits that he wears so well
and prances around for me posing his own beautiful muscles is awesome. I mean
this is all brand new yet So much fun. No, I have not knocked him out since
nor do I want that level of violence between us again but I have punched and
kicked him around the house, slapped him into a crying bleeding mess and have
choked him out at least 20x since and roll play a lot with him. It is great
yet he remains a TRUE man, a real manly man and my man!!!! I do allow him to
slap me around too but nearly as much as I do him. We of course have a safety
word although he hardly uses it and I stop myself since the goal is never to
hurt the other person, never.

It's GREAT seeing him at work knowing he is wearing the girly panties I bought
for him or walking by him and whispering that later I want him to blow me
after I dress him up like the whore I love that and we both smile. One time he
was in charge of a meeting with about 20 of us and I handed him a note that
said " after I knocked your white boy shit unconscious I had the best orgasm
of my life" and smiled as he read it and turned red and I saw a little buldge
in his pants. Two times in the past maybe few months I dragged him into this
little bathroom in the basement of the building that nobody kniows about and
slapped him HARD maybe 10x and had him jerkoff for me as I stood there topless
and playing with myself- really awesome awesome and awesome Before I wrote
this here, (note I keep a more detailed diary that this and he knows all about
that diary and I have read it to him while he jerks off for me which is SOOOO
HOT!!! I love when he does that for me) I shared this with 3 of my girlfriends
and told Ronnie afterwards and he was fine with it. So what did we do? My
friends and I went out for drinks one night and before we came home I told him
to get dressed up in a blue dress I bought for him with the black wig and
makeup and I want him to serve drinks to me and my friends and he
did!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This was up there with one of the best nights ever. We
walked in and there is Ronnie all dressed up with his GREAT body and handsome
everything, ha ha wearing this dress, wig and makeup serving us drinks. We
walked in and EACH ONE OF us gave him a deep and long kiss as my friends all
know and have told me how hot they think he was and I told them ALL about what
I wrote here PLUS some things I prefer not to write about in public so they
were already dying to see this and watching them kiss him was cool, really
was. I stood there next to him talking about the time I knocked him out cold
and the 4 of us went to our bedroom for a lot and I mean a lot lot lot of
drunken fun with my most wonderful man. I always knew that these friends
thought he was hot so it was so cool. It was also my first experience with a
woman or in this case women!! Ronnie danced for us and I strapped on the dildo
later on and they watched as I slapped him around and he sucked the dildo like
a BJ. My friends are totally into my body and muscles so it was really great,
and I mean REALLY great. Without crazy detail I can say that everyone came a
lot and they all slept over, us inour room and them in the other bedrooms. The
next morning I told Ronnie to go wake them up and have fun and he ended up
screwing my one friend who not only is hotter than me I think but who has the
hots for Ronnie. I gave him permission and it was fine. I watched all of it
and then had her eat me out as he kissed me and thanked me and told me how
much he loved me.

Keep in mind that most of our time is NOT spent like this but in more cerebral
activities, more "normal" activities and with friends and family. This is just
one slice of our exciting sexual part of our life.

Anyway, thought it was time to publicize this since we are both fine with it
and LOVE it.