Sharon

How a 51- year old female bodybuilder found happiness with a 26 year-old man.


How indeed? My name is Sharon and I am in fact 51 years old and living in
Colorado Springs. Fitness and sports have been part of my life for as long as
I can remember. I played a lot of sports growing up, from track to tennis and
softball and anything else in between. I always excelled and loved a variety
of sports and went to college on a full scholarship for track and softball. I
did a variety of things on the track team from high jump to javelin and cross
country and in softball I played a mean first base and had a good bat an
averaged 11 home runs a season. It was in college that I fell in love with
weight lifting and bodybuilding after I saw a picture of Rachael McLish in a
magazine and saw her compete back in the 80's. I never thought of lifting
weights nor was it popular for girls to do so back then. I am a tall 5'9 and
weighed around 145 pounds most of my life and was always skinny but strong. I
competed with the boys in almost every sport I played and loved doing so and
was as a result very popular with the boys. I was married 3x, have four lovely
grown children, 3 girls and a boy, I adore them all and see all the time and
have and had a great life. I am even friendly with my x-husbands and their new
wives and we all live near one another and see each other periodically.
Nothing dramatic ever happened between me and my X's it's just I always felt I
out grew them and needed more. I was single for 3 years before I met Sydney
and was dating a lot since like I said, I adore men.

I live a normal life in fact very ordinary. I have a wonderful home, live
comfortably, own three health clubs, of various sizes and besides work and
dating a lot of men I enjoy reading and being home. Rumor is I may even become
a grandmother soon which is mind blowing to me as I was told to choose "what I
want to be called" which is surreal but awesome. Yes, I do arm wrestle a lot
and only because people ask me to do so, and I do wrestle a lot since it is an
activity I enjoy otherwise nothing crazy or exciting at least by the standards
of the some of the stories I have read on this site. I have wrestled quite a
bit with my men but nothing hardcore, always a safety word and nothing ever
gets really out of hand. All done for fun, sexual fun and yes it is a turn on
for all parties, some light dominance but nothing like I have read on this
site. I am writing to give people another perspective on women like me with
muscle and who are very good athletes.

It was in college that I discovered the world of bodybuilding and while I was
never hardcore steroid popping type, I did and still do enjoy having these
muscles. I am not sure if I was always strong naturally or became so from the
lifting but I can lift some notable heavy weights. Since I got into
bodybuilding I am now 165lbs without a drop of fat anywhere and have been the
same weight for the past 20 years or so and am a natural, 100% natural
38b-27-34. No, no breast work or anything else yet although I do not rule it
out at some point. Why not? I have benched 225lbs. for 2 reps, thank you very
much and can one arm curl 55lbs for 7 reps with each arm. Those are max
weights and typically workout with less but do like going heavy from time to
time. My biceps measure 15 inches when I am lean and training but I walk
around with a flexed 14 inches with nice defined arms and am proud of what I
have developed. My triceps and back are both very defined and my legs are
decent but need work I have to say and I do or I should say I can flex a 6
pack which I like. Also proud of my claves which are 15.5 inches and look
awesome if I say so myself. Yes, I know I am not a real female bodybuilder
type by today's standards since these women are ginormous. I look more like a
physique or fitness competitor but I have to tell you even these girls are
getting so big it is unbelievable to me.

I noticed Sydney from afar at a Crafts Fair of all places one summer day. He
was with a very attractive young lady and by the look of it they were dating
and all over each other. I was there with two girlfriends who saw me staring
at him and since they know I do "date a lot" LOL, they immediately said "
Sharon, don't think about it, he can be your son for Christs sake" and they
were right. Except, I love men and they love me right back and I was getting
that "special feeling" when I saw him. Sydney is 6'2'' weighs about 190, was
in good shape but certainly no gym rat in terms of muscle development. Now I
do admit to dating all kinds, whomever turns me on and gives me that "special
feeling" but, not that I knew his age, 26 is way too young for me. One of my
kids is 26!! Plus clearly I had much more muscle than he ever would have. So I
stared at him from a distance and yearned for him in my heart, or someplace,
lol, and kept walking with my friends through the fair but thinking about him-
there was something there for sure. Along the way I had two men stop me and
try their best pickup lines as my friends watched and laughed. One of them
commented how unreal it is that no matter where we go at least one guy will
throw themselves at me. That is true, maybe it's the perfume I wear, LOL. Who
knows? When I say I date all kinds that is a true statement. I have dated
Hispanic men, 2 black men, older and younger, bald and not, bodybuilders and
athletes. If I get "that feeling" I am in!! For the record, all of my X-
husbands were handsome and wonderful men who had NO problem getting remarried
to beautiful women.

I was wrapping up my last divorce when I was leaving the lawyers office and
who do I see in the lobby of this office building? Yes, Sydney who was looking
rather professional in his suit and looking very handsome and fit. I stopped
and made believe I was making a call and watched him take the elevator up one
level to the cafeteria and I followed. I was wearing a sleeveless dress and
heals, nothing super sexy since I was going to my lawyers office but I love
dressing up and the outfit was good enough to show off my best assets, my
figure and arms and calves. I watched as he chatted with some people over a
cup of coffee and as soon as he was done and was walking towards the elevator
banks I followed him but he moved so fast and the elevator was right there and
he hopped on and he was gone. What can a girl do? I laughed and went down to
my car and on the way down a very handsome man stopped me and had a decent
pick up line that I heard many times. This gentlemen said " excuse me but I
see you workout a lot, I wish my wife did, can you tell me how much you
bench?" Guys, this is a pretty common pick up line, that I do not mind when it
is asked politely, so I paused and we spoke for a few minutes and then he
asked me out for drinks and I declined and went to my car. I am always
flattered when men approach me politely, which is often the case, and have no
issues with it. I would say of all the men I have dated, 80% have asked me out
and 20% I have asked out. I am not a fan of getting in the middle of anyone
else's relationship, breaking up someone's relationship or anything like that
since there are plenty of men out there for me so why do something so mean.
And before anyone asks, I am the least violent person you will meet and am not
into fighting in any way. Now what goes on in the bedroom is different but
that is always done with other things in mind. Over the years I have been
asked to try MMA, boxing, karate and all of that but have no interest in
hurting anyone or getting hurt. I won't even watch those things on TV.

Maybe 2 month's later who do I see in my health club, yes MY gym? Guess who?
LOL of course Sydney. I laughed when I saw him because here is a guy I was
interested in coming right to mama, lol, in my gym and I was dressed for it to
say the least. Look when I workout I go all out and that day was both an
aerobic day and a heavy lifting day and when I saw him I was one very pumped
and fit lady. I was wearing a yellow sports bra and black shorts and new white
sneakers and I have to say I looked great and felt great. I did chest and arms
and everything was popping and I was in my usual great mood. For the past 3
nights I have been with this guy I have seeing on and off so sexually I was
satisfied and happy too. Let's call it relaxed, OK? That, being sexually
satisfied, helps me a lot during the day in terms of being aggressive with
men.

When I saw him I was surprised and noticed he was by himself so I walked over
and introduced myself as the owner of the gym. His reaction was typical, he
looked at me and my body and I saw his eyes enlarge and give me the once over,
resting his eyes in all the usual places men do and then stared at my arms and
abs. So far so good Sydney, I thought to myself. Meantime he was wearing a
Peyton Manning T-shirt, just tight enough to show off his goods and a nice
pair of shorts. Looking good and VERY handsome I must say and I was getting
that feeling again, lol. So I asked him if he was a member and he said he just
joined 2 weeks ago but since he was so busy this was his first time here.
Naturally, I volunteered to show him around which he eagerly agreed to and as
I did I made sure to demonstrate a number of the machines to show off my
muscles and body. Along the way I was asking him a bunch of questions, such
as: his age which was 26, his occupation which was IT, where he was from which
was right here in Colorado and of course I asked him if he was married and he
was not and "in between girl friends" so all was perfect. He in turn
complimented me about my physique which of course allowed me to flex for him a
number of times and I did that to determine his reaction to a woman who has
more muscle than him and he appeared to be very into it. When he asked me the
same questions I watched his face when I told him my age and the fact that I
have some kids his age AND older ( OMG!!!) but he was taken with the body
which is typical. I was bold enough to take his hand so he could feel the
ridges and definition in my abs as I flexed for him. I knew I had him right
then and there. His eyes got big, he started breathing deeper and we both knew
he had an erection going. All good!! LOL

After about an hour of touring the club I invited him back to my office where
we chatted and I showed him all the magazine covers and insides I have been
in, including 2 before he was born. Yes, this was blowing both of our minds as
we flirted away big time. Once I saw the buldge in his shorts after I had him
measure my biceps and arm wrestled, I WON LOL, I knew he was mine, hands down.
Not to be presumptuous, I invited him over to my house for dinner the next
night and he accepted and continued complimenting me about my strength and all
the whole time he was at the club.

I cooked a nice dinner and told him to dress casual as it will be just us and
planned a nice evening of getting to know one another. He arrived on time and
looked AMAZINGLY handsome. His features are simply dead spot on handsome, nice
build, great hair and a nice style about him. He wore a nice shirt and jeans
with nice loafers to match. Very manly looking, my type for sure. I wore a
simple tightish blouse that was sleeveless and showed off enough of me to get
him excited and a pair of jeans and heals. I looked really good and felt good.
I even had a serious workout that day to keep everything hard and pumped.

We chatted and ate and drank some wine for over four hours this beautiful
Friday night and I really liked him. At one point we walked out in the yard to
look at the stars and he grabbed me from behind around my waste and commented
"you are seriously a beautiful and sexy woman and this body is unreal" and I
turned around and kissed him and we stayed there for a good 15 minutes kissing
and fondling until I just grabbed his hand and said follow me. I like being
the dominant one when I am with a a weaker man and conversely I like being
submissive with a stronger man. I took him to my bedroom and slowly and
passionately we made love two times through the night and he fell asleep in my
arms, which was fine since I was stronger than he was and he fully accepted
it. It was really a perfect night from top to bottom.

Our relationship flourished over the next several months despite some trying
times with both of our families due to our respective ages. We all survived it
as love always triumphs. Meeting his mother was a little tricky since she was
just a few years older than me and let's say, a little out of shape but a nice
lady. I wore a very conservative outfit onour forst meeting making sure I was
appropriately covered up. However, she did see the real me when I invited her
to the club for a workout and supplied her one of my personal trainers. Let's
just say she could not keep her eyes off my muscular arms but never said a
word to me. It was funny.

Yes, there are differences between us due to age but we get by it all with the
bond of love we share. I don't bother trying to get him to add more muscle
since I think he is sexy as hell the way he is and he does not try to get me
to reduce mine. We have wrestled many times and he has lost each time and I
have put him in some rather compromising positions where he tapped out, we
have wrestled and I have made him do things that were foreign to him but turn
me on and he has always been game. He has gotten into the muscle worship thing
and the role playing but always sane and fun. I remain the VERY dominant one
which he accepts.

Bottomline is we are in love, this old female bodybuilder and this young man
are in true love. And it is GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!