Jan




Hi,I have been asked to write about my fav topic, me!!

My name is Jan and can be found at Bbeltjan@aol.com .I have been fighting my
whole life, lol yes out of choice. My Mother is also a blackbelt in Judo and
has qualified for TWO Olympics but had injuries before both and could not
compete. She had me and my three sisters, all blackbelts too, fighting since
we were 4 years old. I am number three out of four but the best fighter in the
family, a proven fact. I got my blackbelt in Judo at 17 and am now ALSO a
third degree blackbelt in aikido kickboxing. All my sisters are brown belts in
kboxing but none fight/train like I do. They are all married with children
too. I am 31 years old, single but married 4x and live in S. Cal and have my
own dojo. I am blonde and blue, all natural in every way except I did have my
breasts done several years ago. I stand 5'6 and weigh a rather muscular
although I rarely use weights 140 lbs. I am 36 C-26-34. Also, in all of my
years I have had justfour streetfightsall out of immature anger.Disgusting.
Truth be told that does not include the occasional punch or kick in some guys
stomach.Intwo cases of these "streetfights"they were guys and in both cases
let's just say they will never be the same and the other two they were against
women but guy related..No matter my size I am an experienced and well trained
fighter so even a much larger guy stands ZERO chance against someone like me.
Yeah, I (very) well know the macho men out there think they can beat a trained
blackbelt but that's Ok to think that just keep it too thinking. Do I think I
can beat a bigger TRAINED male opponent? No I do not and have the bruises to
prove it except even i can get lucky sometimes, LOL. AND HAVE!!! Even the
macho boys get knocked out with a well placed foot on their jaw!!.

So, here is my story. I was married a month before my 18th birthday to a man
who was 29. That relationship ended after just a year since he was abusive in
every way but I did get a house and a good amount of cash after that terrible
marriage ended.I was young, stupid, infatuated and a sucker for great body. I
was NEVER abused by anyone in my life and why I took his I now understand
butat the time it was horrific. My mother and older sister helped me
dramatically in ending that relationship and let's say they taught him never
to abuse anyone again- enough said. At 20 I married again, to a police officer
which was a huge mistake too, lol but nothing like the first one. He was a
great guy and far different than the "bad boy" first marriage and the badboy
types are attractive to me., he was divorced with 2 kids but too much drama
with the X wife who I had to beat the shit out of three times which I did NOT
want to do (these beatings do not count towards my "streefights". One time she
poured oil on my car in my own driveway and if Phil was not there I would have
pounded her to deathI was so angry and she was lucky getting off with just 2
broken ribs and a mangled face before he realized what was going on in our
driveway..She was just an angry bitch who was way to focused on making his
life miserable than getting on with hers. I choked her out and sprained the
ligamentsin her left arm thesecond time and this was on the damn beach where
she "surprised me onone of my runs,and the next beatings Igave her were worse
but it was not worth the trouble so I had to divorce him too.He had no money
and lived off of me so I even gave him back the engagement ring. Good man but
bad situation. He ended up getting a restraining order and full custody
oftheir kidsMy third marriage was at age 23 to a very very wealthy guy who was
44. That was a wonderful marriage until I realized he loved cocaine more than
me which was a huge problem. We really lived the S. Cali life I have to say,
yacht-parties-travel-relatively famous friends etc-as he was one wealthy guy-
a nice guy too but he had a problem.I am no angel Lord knows and I drink and
even smoke cigarettes when I do drink (which I know is fucked up since I am a
competitive athlete and fight regularly and fight as a professional) and have
been known to do a substance here and there over the years, however, those
things were never a focus of my being. I did beat him up a few times breaking
his jaw in two places the last time he was in a drug/alcohol stuper and I
walked.It's not like I liked beating him or any other guy, I do NOT get off on
such things at all, in those situations but he forced my hand (and my feet LOL
LOL) and was out of control in his behavior.We did have great sex and often he
brought in SPECTACULAR looking women for me to party with too. I ended up a
rather financially comfortable woman with two additional homes, 3 luxury cars
and a substantial amount of cash and jewelry. Let's say there was enough there
for me to buy all of my sister's VERY nice S. Cali homes and each received a
car too. My Mom alreadyhas everything she needs. And the 4th hubby was at age
27 to a nice man age 47. This was the best of the bunch and treated me like a
Queen in all ways. His grown children hated my guts and thought I was a gold
digger despite the FACT that I am very well off without him. I kept him around
for 2 1/2years but the sad truth is he could not keep up with me plus he was
the opposite of the bad boy types I am really attracted too. I am a sexual
human being, very very physically active as I teach classes all day in both
Judo and kickboxing and fight and train to fight all the time. I had to end it
officially after I beat up SIX of his friends (separate fights of course) and
three of those I beat them bloody and knocked out two of them and the whole
scene was just messy. Those six fights were all arranged and all in my dojo
after hours as he LOVED watching me fight and dominate his friends.Truth is I
liked it too since he LOVED it so much.My financial take-away from that
marriage was relatively substantial despite a pre-nup. I still see him since
he was and is such a nice guy. I date younger men now.

My formal education ended with High School but pride myself on being a good
business woman.I was VERY athletic in High School playing soccer and running
track but fighting wasALWAYS my fav. I also dabble in real estate development
since I have the funds to do so and have some success. I have a GREAT family
and we are all very close. Amongst my sisters I am the best fighter and
without going into a lot of detail here or at least now, once I beat my older
sister the fourth time and had a LONG conversation with my mother it was
cemented that I am the best and in turn get the respect from all of them in
that regard. . I LOVE all of my sisters to death as they do me but after the
4th beating and it was a doozy I dominated my sister in ways I cannot tell you
here but will tell you I did sleep with her husband, then fianceand with 3 of
her former boyfriends as a way of really telling her,, a woman I IDOLIZED for
her skill before I started beating her. that I am the best in the family. She
accepted the facts and we have all become closer. My other sisters knew for a
long time that I can beat them and each has given me their significant others
as a way, in my house at least, of saying who is in control.And the last
random fact I will tell you is that I just got back from Spain with my latest
boyfriend who is my age,who is a bodybuilder on the amateur level
(middleweight) and a major bad boy type who is awesome in bed and rolls with
my erotic sexual behavior, is dumb as a box of rocks but satisfies my sexual
needs (which I know are a lil off the charts I am told lol) but we have no
future.I use him for his body and sex otherwise he is dead from the neck up.
Jonathan needs someone more like him and there are plenty of empty headed
blondes here with amazing bodies. I date a lot and do want to settle down like
my sisters have and have children soon. That is my goal. And I accomplish my
goals!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My students always ask if I like kickboxing or Judo more? Between the two I
like kickboxing more although I am better at Judo. If you go to my mother's
house (which I bought for her and own) there are literally two rooms filled
with all of our trophies and stuff we have won- also pictures of all of us.
But something about kickboxing that I enjoy the most is . It is more final and
what I mean by that, in Judo my opponent will get choked unconscious (which is
SO much fun to feel them weaken in my clutches) or tap out some other way.
Yes, we all have broken peoples arms along the way but in kickboxing the loser
looks more like a loser with broken noses, bloody and beaten. Like in Judo my
opponent can go to work the next day and nobody would know but in kickboxing
they will be home for a week or more healing and I like that. By the way I
have been on the other end at times myself and I have to say I look at myself
in the mirror afterwards with a blackeye or TWO and get turned on knowing that
I fit the TRUE warrior mentality. Yeah, I know I am crazy lol. But knowing I
gave it my all and have a black eye and fought my heart out but lost can get
me wet (down there! lol). I have gotten my butt kicked a few times and than
meet my opponent in the hotel bar afterwards and get SHIT FACED with her or
him for that matter and have a ball. Feeling like the two of us were true
warrior types and can kick ass. That kind of situation and getting drunk with
her whole team and mine and going outside for a cigarette followed by all of
those guys trying to ask me questions and me KNOWING I can wipe the fucking
floor with most of them just gets me wet and YES I have slept with my share of
people that way. Yes I know I am different lol. I pride myself on being an
awesome fighter in the ring, having a rockin body on the beach, being a
sophisticated and experienced conversationalist at a party and a "whore" in
the bedroom. I am SUPER confident in my abilities too- all of my abilities!

Fighting- I love it is the perfect summary of my feelings. I get excited and
nervous before each and every fight and even though I have not won them all
and have been choked out, arm barred out, knocked out cold 2x in kickboxing
and lost 8 decisions over the years, I still love it. Being in the lockerroom
and preparing for a fight is great and nerve racking. Putting tape on my
fists, gloves over that, breast ad groin protection and getting ready for
battle is amazing. Seeing my opponent at the weigh-in energizes me. Hugging an
opponent that I beat, especially the ones that tap out or get knocked out by
my fists, feet or choked out can make me wet, feel powerful and want more and
look forward to the next one. As I said, I do NOT streetfight or fight
barefisted or fight the untrained UNLESS I get paid and paid handsomely which
I have done and will do for the right situation. My last husband loved when I
did that and I made quite a bit money doing so. Right, I do not need the money
but find it interesting to do so- just another twist. Yes, I have beaten each
of my sisters several times and as noted above especially my big sister. They
respect my power and my body and I have slept with each and every one of their
husbands/boyfriends at MY WILL since I am the dominant one. I do take that
seriously and do not abuse this power or them and respect and love them all to
death but this is how it is done. I have even slept with my mothers boyfriend
actually two of them as a sign of my dominance within the family. We have
spoken about this many many times among the 4 of us and we accept this as it
is what it is and I get the respect accordingly. We have a GREAT relatinship
amongst us. I no longer will fight any of my sisters since the last several
times I hurt them plus I am the only one who is truly full time active in the
sport. They are all excellent fighters, with state and national championships
over the years but not at my level and hurting them is not what I want to do.
Dominating them is just a fact of life. I want to emphasize that I do not
bully people, do not street fight or look to hurt anyone. I know I can but am
well trained and disciplined enough to not be in those situations or if I were
I am smart enough to avoid them 95% of the time. I have choked out, knocked
out, physically hurt enough people in my life to know and be confident knowing
who I am so there is no need to "beat someone up" in a bar. Just knowing I can
is enough for me.Have I kept some asshole away from one of my my girlfriends
in a club or somewhere elae with a well placed kick to their stomach, HARD
slap to their face or a quick flip? Yes I have but that is SO the exception
and NOT what I prefer to do as a human being.I do know I have a great body but
here in Southern Cal there is no shortage of great bodies. Always someone with
a better bod nearby that's for sure. HOWEVER, I also know that there are VERY
few women with a body as good as mine who can also kick some serious ass in
Judo OR Kickboxing plus none that I know who have a business like mine or the
property and money I have too. All that being said, I look forward to
fighting, respect my fellow fighters to the hilt and yes I do get off, as it
were, from my fighting very often.

A word about my older sister- First and foremost I LOVE HER TO DEATH!!! We all
grew up as fighters since my Mom was an Olympic Blackbelt in Judo. We all have
been fighting since we were young. I am the only one who really does full
contact kboxing too. In any event, she is 4 years older than me and bigger too
by an inch or so plus 10 plus pounds. When I was 18 I first was able to beat
my mother in Judo and then over the next few years I beat her 4 consecutive
times including 2 choke outs. The only person standing in my way of being the
best in the family was my older sister and we all knew it. To make a long
story short we fought, in the gym, and I barely won via tap out. That did not
go over well with her but I knew I was on my way. Over the next 6 months we
fought five more times and I won more easily each time including THREE
chokeouts- the choke is the definitive dominating move. Feeling her lose
consciousness in my grasp was rewarding. Still there was an air about the
house that she was the best fighter even though I think we all knew what was
going to happen. One day she came into my room to "borrow" a top and I stopped
her by saying NO which was the unwritten law that the best fighter gets
certain privlidges such as borrowing clothes whenever they wanted. We stood
there facing each other and she said "I am borrowing this top one way or
another" and I said "you will have to fight me for it" she stepped back and
threw 3-4 hooks into my belly which hurt of course and i instintively kicked
her in the head and dropped her- she was not out but for all intent in
purposes she was- she was in the sitting position next to the wall in her bra
and panties as I stood over her. My Mom came into the room and saw what I did
and bent down to my sister who was still on queer street and hugged her and
they BOTH sobbed. They sobbed knowing and understanding this was IN FACT the
changing of the guard so to speak. I stood there with tears in my eye knowing
two things, first was I am now in charge-dominant and the best fighter in the
house and two, my sister will not accept this easily and will need another
beating. For the next few weeks there was some obvious tension in the house
and the only way to settle this once and forall was to have another fight-
planned and in the gym with just us in attendance. We kickboxed, again not her
specialty but it was clear that she could not compete with me in Judo. Our
kickboxing match lasted 4 minutes and 11 seconds and I knocked her out cold. I
think we all knew that was going t be the outcome but it had to happen. It was
really never competitive and the fact that she lasted over 4 minutes with me
reflects how tough this woman was and still is. The final few seconds were her
stuck in the corner while I hammered away at her body and landed a wild
uppercut that jerked her head back and truth be told with a real ref she would
have either gotten a standing 8 or sagged to the canvas but everything was
happening fast, then two more hooks to her body and i stepped back and kicked
her in the jaw and her eyes went glassy and her hands dropped and another kick
to her jaw ended it as she fell face down unconscious. She was lying there and
nobody moved, which was the right thing to do. Easy 30 seconds went by until
my Mom and sisters went to her and turned her over on her back- still
unconscious from two kicks to her jaw and took care of her. Each of them came
over to me to congratulate me and my Mom gave me a huge anmd long hug and told
me how prous of me she was. I did have to sleep with my sisters fiance three
times after this JUST to show my dominance and I did rough him up too as she
has done. I did not want too, did not have too on some levels but in some way
we all knew I was going too just to cement my dominance over BOTH of them.

Enhancements- I am totally against steroids or anything like that and am not
well versed on any of it. I eat right, take vitamins but that is it. I know
the steroid types and have a bf ( at the moment) who takes them since he is an
amateur bodybuilder and like I said I use him for sex pretty much.OK, not
"prety much: lol I use him for sex period. We have had women in mydojo who I
know are taking them. We have had and have right now a few pro bodybuilders,
women, who have horrible deep voices and use the judo and kboxing to stay in
aerobic shape. They can't fight worth a lick. Few months or so back I had a
120 pound woman, brown belt, use and abuse and totally fucking destroy a 180
pound pro female bodybuilder so badly I had to stop the fight in the 5th round
and when I did the fbb broke down in tears on the mat bleeding like a pig and
swollen all over and lucky she was not KO'd as she thought she was going to
beat this other woman which i knew was impossible, not even with a lucky
shot.The fbb was dominated, humiliated and was in HORRIBLE aerobic shape, I
thought she was going to have a damn heart attack she was breathing so hard
and in the meantime Carol was using her big body for target practice. I took
her into the bathroom to help her out and calm her down and was in there for
about 30 minutes and finally had this gigantic woman calm when Carol, her
opponent, walked in and seeing the HUGE difference in size was incredible.
They spoke as the FBB sat on the bench andCarol stood up, both inbra and
panties, one being ripped and huge and the other merely athletic looking but
certanily no BB andI loved it as didCarol (and her bf later that night I would
imagine) enjoyed what she did too. lol lol. The fbb is still a member and
tries hard but is SUPER RESPECTFUL of the talented female fighters with
belts.Fighting is about skill and NOT muscles. I have muscles that are rather
obvious and I like them but no mistaking me for a fbb nor is that my goal. I
love my biceps and all but they are reasonable although far bigger of course
than a layman or civilian as we call you guys, my abs of course are developed
and the rest but so it goes.

Challenges and opponents- Yes and yes.All the time but like I said I fight in
controlled atmospheres.I do have my eye on certain people but that will come
when it comes. An older lady in S Florida has a reputation that is remarkable
with an ego to match and I want to knock down a few pegs, one in PA, some
bodybuilder turned MMA fighter in Ohioand the list goes on of people I would
like to beat the living shit out of for one reason or another.Yes, I have
fought and will fight men under certain circumstances too. NO, I do not have a
temper at all so like I said I do not get into streetfights or anything like
that. 99% of my life I am with a man so I avoid getting assholes giving me
stupid pick up lines although it does happen from time to time but no big
deal. Shit, it even happens in my own dojo with guys but at least there I get
to kick them around in front of the other students to teach them some
manners---I do enjoy that without really hurting them, physically at least.
Yes, of course women hit on me too, this is Southern Cali afterall, lol.
Weather I take advantage of that is for another day. I "hate" nobody, and do
not have a mean bone in my body, I am never violent outside of the gym/ring
and mean nobody any harm except my opponent. Only other time I am "violent"
could be sometimes in bed asI do enjoy rough sex at times. Not nutty, beating
each other crazy rough sex but still enjoy it at MY level from time to time.
Bedroom wrestling (judo) and boxing is really amazingly hot with the right
person. Wimpy men do sickin me on many levels but they are not really part of
my being. Like my current bf who is the amateur bb I would never allow him to
hit me, but I do get off slapping, kicking and punching him and dropping him
to the ground bleeding...sometimes. Yeah, TMI lol lol

Miscelleneous- I drive a white Mercedes 500, I have a great family, solid
business, good friends and can date at will and I do. I am a very active
person, extremely sexual one. I have modeled clothes in Judo and kboxing
magazines and have been interviewed there too. I have fought on cable TV a
bunch, do not do "sessions" "photo-shoots" or play fighting/acting unless you
are my lover, which "you" are not, lol lol. I am professional in everything I
do. I do take courses at night at local colleges regarding topics I like from
learning Italian to cooking to history. I am EXTREMELY proud of what I
accomplished in life so far and disappointed in all of my marriages but
thankful I came out of them well off and very comfortable, enough where I
never have to work a day again but I love teaching so here I am. I do want to
get married and have children. My faults? Too nice to some who deserve less,
occasional smoker and I let too many people get away without choking them out
or kicking them in their jaw for being rude.And maybe a fault is being too
modest regarding not showing off my "goods" often enough. Meaning, dressing
classy versus sluty which I do only on vacation. Have to tell you I my last
vacation with my empty headed but gorgeous BB boyfriend I did in fact go
topless and dress slutty more than ever before and make a spectacle out of
both of us the way we carried on, lol lol. I guess having him there, even
though he cannot fight his way out of paper bag but he is a big man, gave me
the con.

Well that should give you a flavor of who I am, and I hope the people who
requested I write this info about me are satisfied too. They also want me to
write some details about some of my fights which I may do. I did peruse some
of the stories written by others on here and they are obvously fantasy in most
cases. I am, one second let me check, yup yes I am a real person alive and
well and living in S. Cali so my stories if you will shall be as real as me.
Based on the small samling of what I read I may not fit into this site which
is fine and that will be that. In the meantime, if you are a real man looking
for a wonderful woman feel free to email and send a pic too and if you are
male or female although our target is women and you live here and want the
BEST training on earth to become a really great fighter and learn how to
protect yourself, dominate your man and friends and get in the best shape of
your life you should contact me too. My dojo is NOT for the faint of heart,
NOT for the aerobic boxing type to break a sweat type of deal. We train you to
fight and destroy!!! We do NOT EVER train you to be a bully, streetfight or me
a "tough guy" type. That will and never has worked for us. See ya