The REAL Karen the Boxer--stay away I really can't take it anymore and have to get back at her and tell everyone the TRUTH about Karen. OK, let's put it out there now. My name is Hal and I was Karen's most recent boyfriend to get the boot out of the blue and be kicked to the curb like yesterday's trash. I was devoted to her, got my ass kicked twice by her, broke off my engagement to a woman of my dreams for her,put my life on hold for her, was loyal to her despite always knowing she saw other men, bought her expensive gifts, volunteered my time for her charities and did EVERYTHING and ANYTHING she wanted. The result of all of this? She breaks up with me just like that and it's over. I feel and felt TERRIBLE. AWFUL. I broke off an engagement with a wonderful lady because I was captured by all of Karen's shit. Yes, I blame myself but I need to expose this lady for who she really is. After receiving a call or I should say several calls from some of her friends explaining that I was not the first that this happened to and then being directed to this site I felt I have to tell the world, no matter the consequences, and believe me I know the violent side of her, that I have to tell the world. Time for ME to feel better and time for someone else besides that control freak to be in control. I first saw Karen in a gym where my fiance was having a photoshoot. My fiance is a professional and well known fitness/figure "star" who like me is from the Midwest and we met here in Florida. She is stunningly beautiful and fit and more beautiful inside. Meeting her was the best thing that ever happened to me and I blew it and will regret it forever. Our romance was fast and furious and we had so much in common and proposing to her after she finished in the top 5 at the Arnold was a dream come true. Until Karen entered my life we were planning our wedding. So, at this photoshoot it was quite obvious that the photographer was pre-occupied with someone clanging weights in the far corner and was taking these long breaks from shooting my fiance. She was becoming annoyed as I was and because it was for a major magazine cover, her first by the way, we both decided not to make a fuss. However, after a while I had it up to here and walked over and see him shooting this other woman. Yeah, seeing Karen for the first time did stop me in my tracks and I admit to watching her lift and shadow box. But I had to say something and did. When I politely inquired to what was going on it was like I was invisible. I was forced to walk between Karen and the photographer when I first saw "the look". Karen was punching the air in some intense shadow boxing deal , in a pool of sweat at that point, wearing this powder blue sportbra and matching shorts and she turned towards me with sweat cascading down her face and said " if you don't move away NOW I will break your fucking jaw". I t was not the words that were half as shocking as the look. The look burned through my head and went through my body like hearing about the death of a relative-pierced my soul. I did not know what to do. Was she going to hit me? I am 6'1'' and in really good shape but in no way a fighter, never have even once been in a fight. But if she was stupid enough to hit me I thought I would punch her back as I was angry. Everyone was staring at me and I found myself meekly backing away and walking back to my fiance who was not so patiently waiting. There was something about that look in her eyes that was intimidating. Eventually the photographer and lighting people returned, apologized and completed the shoot. The cover and inside really helped launch her career. A month or so later while shopping in South Beach I spotted Karen again with two women from the gym one of who I knew. I felt a little nervous in my stomach as I approached them. All three were beautiful ladies with Karen standing out due to her height and what she was wearing as those abdominal's were on full display. I hugged and kissed the one I knew and was introduced to the other two and it was crystal clear Karen had no idea who I was. For whatever reason I could not control my emotions, which I learned is not uncommon when around Karen, and reminded of our first meeting. After a few seconds she said she remembered even though later on she would tell me she had no idea what I was talking about and only said she did because I was cute. The next time I saw her, which was at least 2 months later was in the gym and that's when things changed. There was a buzz in the gym and I noticed it and felt it. It was only my second time in this particular gym and the only reason I was at this very upscale place that I would never afford was that at my fiance's level she was offered free membership everywhere. The logic being that other guests would see nationally known fitness people working out there and think if they join the gym they could look like that too. Dumb of course but she had memberships to every gym in South Florida and as a result in some cases they gave one to me too. So I walk in and I see the whose who of South Florida, I could smell the money but I also felt the buzz as many people were staring at Karen. I have seen this with my fiance in spades many times but not like this. In the far corner was a heavybag and speed bag and there she was doing her thing as 3/4 of the gym either stared or snuck looks. Hitting the speed bag was a site I never saw but sporadically on TV watching professional men train. She hit it with a rhythm and a power I never saw up close and she did it for a long time. She looked like she just jumped out of a pool in terms of how soaken wet in sweat she was and there were solid muscles everywhere with a back and shoulders that my fiance as a PROFESSIONAL would be jealous of. OK I admit that and I will admit other attributes about Karen but have to tell you there is nobody more controlling, volatile temper, conceited to a level I will not be able to describe, selfish, self centered and mean. What eventually happened and it all happened so fast, about an hour after watching that show of her on the speed and heavy bag she was at the juice bar reading and drinking and talking to a stream of people. I sat at the other end of the bar and kept staring at her, like everyone else and all of a sudden I see her motioning me over with her finger. I was not sure and in fact surely though she was not meaning me. Before I knew it I found myself being pulled into her magnetic field- that is what it was like. We were talking and whereas last time we "spoke" at the photo shoot she was staring through my head now she had this beautiful smile, sweet tone, friendly conversation and she invites ME out for a drink right there and then. I found myself saying yes even though I had to meet my fiance for dinner as we were planning our wedding. So we both showered at the gym and met at this bar as I called my fiance and made up and excuse to push dinner off an hour. Imagine the pull this Karen has, I am lying to my own fiance!! An hour turned into THREE as I could not pull myself away from Karen. I walked her to her car and she kissed me long and deep and told me, not asked, to come to her house for dinner the next night. Was left standing in the parking lot with my head spinning, a bulge in my pants that I never experienced and an angry fiance. I am laying this whole truthful and embarrassing story out for the world to see since I am pretty much finished in Florida and have my life ruined. Watch out and avoid Karen is the message. You will only be used and abused and kicked to the curb like others. The next day as she requested I went to her house. Well, first off I have never been in a house like that in my life. Gigantic, all white and glass, on the intercoastal, indoor and outdoor pools, a full gym, marble and granite everywhere, just incredible to see. There were at least two housekeepers running around wearing all white and one guy dressed in street clothes doing this and that and Ilearned that he was one of her personal slaves. Slaves??? Crazy. She had more property, more landscaping, more fountains then ever saw in my 29 years. She greets me at the door and my head exploded. She is wearing this tight purple sexy top with sequins that had her nipples sticking out so far I thought she might have been expecting someone else or just got out of bed screwing someone. Low rider jeans that exposed her most famous muscle group, her abs with flat white sandals that had these colored stones on them. I was not sure what to do, hug her, kiss her, run for my life so I waited for her. She reaches up and puts her muscular arms around my neck and gives me a kiss that almost made me shoot my load in my new jeans that I bought for this dinner. Meantime I lied to my fiance and told her I was meeting friends. We never did have dinner. She showed me around the house and her totally outrageous yard and ended up talking the whole night. Now talking for so many hours with a damn erection the size of the Statue of Liberty is no small task. She did most of the talking and told me to take a walk around her property. Watching her walk from behind as her top had a simple string keeping it on I was amazed how V shaped her body was. Afterall I live with a PROFESSIONAL fitness person and this Karen looks more defined and stronger. It was freaky. When we were in the middle of the yard she turned towards me and put my hands on her biceps and did a double bicep pose that was surprising to even me who lived with a professional athlete. First off they popped to a size that was surprising, next they were harder then the granite in her kitchen and then she says, in an evil tone that she could beat the shit out of me if she wanted. I was taken aback but totally turned on by her, her body and her attitude. Did she actually think at 135 pounds she could take me? Inside I laughed. To say we made love would not be accurate, to say she fucked me would be. Looking back I realize that Karen. Controlling, dominant, strong and always doing what is best for one person,the ultra conceited Karen. I was disappointed in myself for cheating on the first true love of my life and fiance. Lying there on my back looking up to the sky and seeing Karen on top of me made me feel well like a man but the cheating thing was getting to me. We spoke as she stayed on top and stayed in her when something happened that never happened to me in my life. I feel my cock getting hard again and see her abs contracting slightly and realize that once again she is fucking me, not the other way around, and she is doing this with her vaginal muscles only. No hip action, nothing crazy but she had such control, such a sexuality that not only is she getting me hard for a second time in a short time but she is controlling me with her pussy muscles. The conceited, self centered it's all about me Karen has just captured another guy. I ended up breaking off the engagement with a beautiful lady only to become a toy for this horrible lady. Karen beat me up twice in that same yard where we first did it. She wanted to teach me a lesson- never quite understood what lesson that was but I can tell you that getting beaten up is not fun and not good for ones ego. The first time she did it was in front of 2 of her fellow fighting girlfriends that freaked me out for a long time. Being giggled at was a lot to handle and seeing these woman in the gym sucked. I was angry as hell and almost left her and of course on hindsight should have. At this informal pool party was just the 4 of us and looking back on it she walked me right into this fight. We went from swimming and talking to standing there in our bathing suits wearing boxing gloves and that shit to protect our teeth in our mouths. It did not take long for her to knock me to the ground to the point my legs would not let me stand as these women laughed. Right in front of them I was made to gingerly walk into the pool, with Karen helping me like a wounded soldier, still wearing those gloves and she fucked me in the pool in front of them. My back was against the wall of the pool, she held me up by my ass and fucked me like a toy- it was dehumanizing in many ways. I was so embarrassed I did not talk to her until the next day. But yes I stayed and dealt with it and endured another beating months later and this time was knocked out. I was in a funk for a week after that one but still stayed loyal to her. I dealt with her control issues, her cheating on me, her constant need to be "satisfied" sexually and with compliments, seeing her receive gifts of all types, her constant posing in every and any mirror she saw, seeing salesgirls in stores ask her questions about her body,seeing people stare at her, seeing her dress inappropriately so many times. The most conceited, controlling, non-stop action, horrible ,mean person I know. She broke up with me with as little compassion that one could imagine. The only time I have ever seen an introspective Karen,a Karen that was not flexing, fucking or talking about herself was when she lost a fight in the gym to a guy. I actually felt sorry for her believe it or not seeing this side of her. This guy kicked her ass and I am telling the world it was a beautiful site seeing her go down and being unable to stand up as the gym owner stopped it. Taking her home in a state like that made me smile from ear to ear but never in front of her. Her sitting stone quiet and beaten in the car as I drove her, instead of HER driving me (read:CONTROL!!!) was great. Showering her and not hearing how strong and sexy she was and for her not to be flexing was GREAT. It did not last long but it was fabulous. My warning to any guy who is caught up now or who will be caught up is. Forget the pretty smile, forget the body and aura of sex, forget any and all attributes on the outside. This woman will physically beat you, psychologically control you, is as high maintenance as you can imagine just ask her two husbands one of whom had the living shit and then some beaten out of him and is so under her spell still comes around like a dog. Stay away from this nut. All she wants is herself. Listen to me, the woman has NO redeeming value. Maybe nobody can match her physical attributes, OK, but who cares? Does anyone need a fuck that bad? Does anyone need to be BEATEN, be with a conceited, mean spirited, self centered, the world revolves around me, constantly flexing and showing off her body, screwing around on the side type of person? You won't get her money, you won't get her loyalty, you will NEVER satisfy her sexually (impossible) , she will abuse you in bed, slap you in public, mouth fuck you for a week, not ask but make you do things sexually that are insane, make you count her pushups and situps EVERY damn day for her obnoxious morning and every morning workouts. It is a worthless waste of time where YOU will lose each an d every time. void the pain and find someone who is a 7,8,9, or even a 10 but is nice. A 100 Karen is not even worth a one night stand. And by the way, she will read this and may knock on my door and knock me out. Let her try, I am ready to fight back! Hal